Have you ever done something that is considered wrong, but felt no guilt about it?
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I can't believe I'm gonna say this, but I agree with that - to a degree. Cause and effect is good. Consequence for him, maybe, though it wasn't meant to be punishment on my end. Some people don't get that the result of an offense is not necessarily retaliatory.
So what, you were not suppose to pursue a better relationship with someone just because who knew the douche bag you were with before? Give me a break!
Look, if you just had an affair with you boyfriend's friend, if your then boyfriend was good to you, then that would be wrong, but instead, you just left him. What's the big deal with that?
The minute he treated you like dirt was the minute you were no longer obligated to "stay away from his friends", simple as that.
I was kinda surprised to see you here really... Not to worry, plenty of toys in this sandbox! And contrary to what some think, I like playing the same way with all (well, most) of them - not just the male ones.
Alright, go back and enjoy your depressing politics (even though I share most of your views, as you know)! Adios, amigo... See ya tomorrow!
I'm gone. For good. It's been a good run. I never made it to 1000 posts on the two other message boards I used to be a member of before deciding it was time to move on. I don't reckon I'll look for a substitute. Time for me to start practicing what I preach and truly disconnect. Cya Sierra. There were only a handful of posters I appreciated here, and you were one of them.
Originally Posted by PassTheChocolate
Boy toy, so you're a target now, eh? LOL.
Really, this kind of thing just baffles me. The most closed minded, critical, offensive, abrasive, judgmental know it alls pumping themselves with the idea that they are unique, different....special. There is nothing original about it. Neurotic/borderline obsessive is nothing otherworldly or above average. And no one will ever have the right answer for someone who thinks he is the authority on everything. Thanks for playin though.
Looks like we're both guilty of making judgements about perfect strangers. Anyone that's been here over the past year would probably draw a different conclusion. My thread/post history speaks for itself. Only God himself could answer the questions that keep me awake at night. No hard feelings though. Kinda cliche, but
I once broke up with someone because he was rude to a waitress at a restaurant we went to. This was only our third or fourth date, but it was bad. Basically, when the waitress first came to us, he laid out five $5 bills on the table. He told her, "See this money? This is your tip for this evening, but every time you screw something up, I'm taking away one of these bills!" I was appalled when I heard this. Luckily the waitress was a good sport and said, "Well...I better not screw up then!". She was a great waitress and she ended up getting the full $25 tip on a $50 bill. However, the whole night was ruined, as I argued with my date continuously about his actions. There were a lot of awkward pauses throughout the night, and as soon as we were done and got outside, I told him I would call a cab to take me home and to not bother ever calling me again. I never felt bad about ending my ties with that scumbag...except that i should have probably ended things in the restaurant. But I got a free meal out of it.
I'm gone. For good. It's been a good run. I never made it to 1000 posts on the two other message boards I used to be a member of before deciding it was time to move on. I don't reckon I'll look for a substitute. Time for me to start practicing what I preach and truly disconnect.
So you're abandoning us... It's a good thing if you're joining RL! Bon Voyage!
Cya Sierra. There were only a handful of posters I appreciated here, and you were one of them.
Thank you, TP. I find it a bit strange, though, considering evidently I contributed to your hasty decision to leave.
Yup. He cheated and he kept denying, and lying, and denying, and lying about something, that I'd rather not discuss here, until I had to FINALLY hear it from the other horses mouth. So, he had it comin'......
*****sings Jazmine Sullivan's 'BUST YOUR WINDOWS' and skips out of thread****
LMAO my bf suddenly hit a "I'm too young to be tied down" phase and decided he wanted to rip and run the streets with his friends all times of night. So the week before finals his laptop somehow got a virus and he had to restore it to it's default settings, meaning he lost everything including his research paper that counted for 40% of his grade. He was so sure that he backed it up on a USB but darn it, he couldn't remember where he put it. So like the great gf I am I volunteered to help him start from scratch
Okay I did feel a little guilty afterward, especially since around day five I was dying to get out of the house for a little while.
Last edited by nat_at772; 06-12-2009 at 11:00 PM..
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