Why is this ATTACHED GIRL at my Job going out her way to TURN ME ON? (dating, girlfriend)

[TVandSportsGuy]

Boy I hate when life has to been this way. The girl knows she is involved but since I started has being flirting non stop. When she was helping me with something on the computer her body was up against my leg and I felt this chill go up my spine. Today I was said something sarscastic and she was throwing popcorn at me and when I was on a business call that lasted kind of long, her reply was-"I see you were talking to your Girlfriend"


I'm enjoying the ATTENTION but It's still a little disappointing because she is dating material. Also how is it everytime she plays a song at her cubicle its a song I liked from the past?? Is this what a girl would do to me if I was in a relationship? It almost makes you wonder why do people even get involved.

[Huckleberry3911948]

do like i do
eat lots of garlic dont use mouth wash.
she will reject you then you will hate her
end of game.
jumanji

[Bosco55David]

Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy

I'm enjoying the ATTENTION but It's still a little disappointing because she is dating material.

If you're interested in her, make a move.

[Chowhound]

Some people, women or men, like to play little games with people and keep someone on the back burner, so to speak if things don't work out with their current SO's.

I've met a couple people like this.

[pengirl40]

1. She likes flirting and the attention and fun it brings. So, she flirts with everyone who is flirting material.
2. She wants you. Bad.



Your pick.

[J Arp]

Originally Posted by pengirl40

1. She likes flirting and the attention and fun it brings. So, she flirts with everyone who is flirting material.
2. She wants you. Bad.



Your pick.

Going by these options, be an optimist. Go for the gold!

[M3 Mitch]

Dude, honestly, you were unemployed for how long? And now you are even thinking about an office romance?!

Pay no attention to her, keep your eye on the ball, dammit...

[Little Mizz Pittsburgh]

JUST SAY NO to office romances. Especially if the person is 'already attached'. It usually doesn't end well.

[AliveandWell]

Originally Posted by Little Mizz Pittsburgh

JUST SAY NO to office romances. Especially if the person is 'already attached'. It usually doesn't end well.

The key word there is usually. And usually does not mean always. People should take risks in life. There have been times where even I have thought about office romances and its because I am human. I've even had crushes on people that were in relationships with someone else. You really can't control who you have crushes on. I know this from my personal experience. And even if you do get in trouble because you try to start an office romance with someone, the only thing you will lose is your job, that's it. Not your house, car or cds or anything else.

However, I will say that if you are attracted to someone who is with someone else, that is very normal but at the same time look for other options. And you never know maybe the person you like may eventually like you enough to want to stay with you instead. Or maybe they won't. You never know what life will give you. Nothing ventured nothing gained

[macjr82]

This actually sounds like one of those situations where he sees "flirting" ans she sees "playing". There is nothing overtly sexual u posted except your response to it.