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Old 06-12-2009, 11:29 AM
 
Location: Tampa, Florida
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I notice that a bunch of you are speaking about one night stands. One I made this thread, I really didn't have that in mind. I was referring more to the 'friends with benefits' situation. Ya know, someone you're cool with, and have sex with, occasionally, but you and that person still date and go out with other people in the process. Are you able to have sex with this FWB (friend with benefit) and not eventually catch feelings while you're having sex with them? Getting all emotional and jealous when you find out that they took someone out to the movies or dinner somewhere. Are you able to block all of that emotional stuff out and still get yours without getting emotionally attached?
I've had friends with benefits and loved it. One of the greatest things in life if you ask me. Never developed any emotional feelings for them either.

That being said, I'd never do that with someone unless I was willing to lose their friendship.
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Old 06-12-2009, 11:49 AM
 
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So the friendship didn't even matter all that much. They were meeting your sexual needs and therefore it was good. Not really what I'd call a friendship. I'd never want to put any of my friendships at risk for ending.

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That being said, I'd never do that with someone unless I was willing to lose their friendship.
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Old 06-12-2009, 12:06 PM
 
Location: Tampa, Florida
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So the friendship didn't even matter all that much.
I didn't say that. I'm just saying that I would engage in a FWB relationship with any friend I wouldn't be willing to lose in my life. Weighing the pros and cons, and all that.
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Old 06-12-2009, 12:49 PM
 
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Hell no! dont lie the fact... there is alwayz an attraction to shag with someone.
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Old 06-12-2009, 01:07 PM
 
Location: JAX
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At this point in my life I wish that was all I had was booty calls.
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Old 06-12-2009, 01:11 PM
 
Location: In a house on a street in Puyallup, WA
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Men can have sex w/o an emotional tie with their partner. Some women make the claim that they, as well, can remove the emotional element from their sexual experiences.

Can YOU have sex without the emotional element? Thoughts? Experiences?

I would think if your a hooker and get paid for it then yes there would be no emotional element, It would be all about the money.
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Old 06-12-2009, 01:13 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE'
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I would think if your a hooker and get paid for it then yes there would be no emotional element, It would be all about the money.
Hookers are usually messed up in the head, though.
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Old 06-12-2009, 01:16 PM
 
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At least they get money unlike all the F buddies that do it for free and with no strings attached. What a waste of time.......

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Hookers are usually messed up in the head, though.
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Old 06-12-2009, 01:16 PM
 
Location: I'm around here someplace :)
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I would think if your a hooker and get paid for it then yes there would be no emotional element, It would be all about the money.
& I'd go further with that to say all "casual sex" is is unpaid prostitution
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Old 06-12-2009, 01:21 PM
 
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Absolutely. At least the hooker gets money to pay rent. "She works hard for the money and you'd better treat her right", as the Donna Summer song goes.

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& I'd go further with that to say all "casual sex" is is unpaid prostitution
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