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Old 06-14-2009, 08:22 AM
 
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true!! I'm thin myself, my friends call me "anorexic" but i have big boobs and wide hips...thanks to my Israeli heritage..all the women there are super skinny with big boobs and wide hips. I'm definitely far from a boyish figure.

However, if men like their women obese or unhealthy..then that's their decision. I dont think these men should encourage their gf's/wives to risk their lives by being so overweight though, because they could wind up ill or even dead. Yes dead.

Also, very few men like their women obese anyways (they're out there, but not that many), I think what the OP was talking about was women who are curvy and have some "meat" which is still healthy as they are not obese. A lot of guys are into these body types believe it or not! Even as a female, when I see super skinny girls who look like little boys (and I'm straight, mind you!)..I think its nasty! and if they have a boyfriend, I feel bad for him..that must hurt the poor guy in bed! lol

Bottom line, from what I've noticed, men like womanly shapes, boobs, hips and a nice butt, and a pretty face, as long as she's not obese. Am I right?
I'm sorry. What was the question?

You lost me when you said you have big boobs.
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Old 06-14-2009, 08:27 AM
 
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I've pretty much always been with a Bigger Woman.My Mom use to tell me that I shouldn't go with Bigger Women that it degraded me.She was much appier my Brother living with a skinny Guy

hillman
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Old 06-14-2009, 08:34 AM
 
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I tend to think that people who follow trends, fads and are entirely "normal" after the age of 21 may be weak minded and weak willed. There are those that just accept what they are shown and told and don't engage their brains. They just want to fit it and be part of a group. The are often the ones that are the most judgemental about anyone who doesn't agree with them/society. Obviously thats not to say that if you like something everyone else does you are weak minded. It depends on how you arrived there.
If you know what you like and are willing to buck the crowd about it more power to you. They don't make it easy.
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Old 06-14-2009, 11:05 AM
 
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You look at society and EVERYTHING is targeted to size zero women. Every commercial, show, etc. However, for some reason, I find those women disgusting. When I am at a store, I find myself checking out the mom who has extra weight then the skinny college chick. My ex-wife is even plus size. I know alot of you don't believe me and that's ok. Am I wrong because I don't follow the rest of the crowd?
a few points:

- Most of what a society believes is just made up and not anything inherently good. Why do we like sports, or fashion, or have computers, or go to bars/clubs? Just because, that's why. There is no inherent good in these.

- As an adult, shouldn't you be more confident and think "screw what anybody else thinks"?

Sorry, but grown people who still think this way seem a bit sad, is all.
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Old 06-14-2009, 11:07 AM
 
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I've pretty much always been with a Bigger Woman.My Mom use to tell me that I shouldn't go with Bigger Women that it degraded me.She was much appier my Brother living with a skinny Guy

hillman

She was happier with your brother being gay with a skinny boyfriend than she was with you dating heavy women?
Haha! That's pretty funny!
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Old 06-14-2009, 11:22 AM
 
Location: North Texas
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You look at society and EVERYTHING is targeted to size zero women. Every commercial, show, etc. However, for some reason, I find those women disgusting. When I am at a store, I find myself checking out the mom who has extra weight then the skinny college chick. My ex-wife is even plus size. I know alot of you don't believe me and that's ok. Am I wrong because I don't follow the rest of the crowd?
What kind of question is that? No, it is not wrong. You like what you like.
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Old 06-14-2009, 12:02 PM
 
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I'm sorry. What was the question?

You lost me when you said you have big boobs.

hahahaha!!! oops..I shouldn't have mentioned the boobs thing..just trying to make a point that skinny girls arent' always boyish looking.

the question was that dont' men prefer womanly shapes, boobs, hips and a nice butt, and a pretty face, as long as she's not obese?
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Old 06-14-2009, 12:19 PM
 
Location: Tampa baby!!
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My husband's like you. It's a pain whenever I go on a diet, because he tries to sabotage it. Cake, ice cream, french fries, taking me out...he's a real jerk. When he met me I was a size 12, now I'm a size 6/8 so I was able to thwart him a bit. Thankfully most of the loss has been in the waist, so no loss for him, lol. His reasoning is that he's skinny, why does he want hips poking him back? Someone has to have the cushion.
Kudos for being able to lose the weight anyway. My ex is one that doesn't even want to see a veg unless it's a mushroom or onion fried in butter.
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Old 06-14-2009, 03:37 PM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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The faster you learn to not give a crap what other people think the sooner you will realize how happy you can be in your life.

Some people will never reach that point. They are constantly worried about what is and isn't socially acceptable that or trying to impress people who don't really care about them (ie. buying BMWs, designer clothes etc.)

If you like larger women, go for it!
Wow, killer, I didn't know you had it in ya!!! I'm gonna have to quick-rep ya for this response!!
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Old 06-14-2009, 04:49 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Wow, killer, I didn't know you had it in ya!!! I'm gonna have to quick-rep ya for this response!!
Maybe I should go buy a lotto ticket, odd flash of genius.
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