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Old 06-19-2009, 12:50 PM
 
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I would never forget what that feels like!! Sheeesh!

I have a pornog--heh hummm-photographic memory!!!

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"a while" is when you start to forget what sex feels like..so who knows how long that can be. depends on the person.
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Old 01-02-2010, 01:06 AM
 
Location: OCEAN BREEZES AND VIEWS SAN CLEMENTE
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If this is what you choose that turns you on, what the hek do you care what society or any one else thinks for that matter. Not all women can be built to carry that tiny size 2 or 4 size. And that is so not realistic. Most Men do want some meat on there women. But if the women is obese, there are health issues to consider also, and the fact, that it is not healthy. But other then that, this decision is for you, and your wants and needs and no one else. I may be considered fat to some, i am a size 7 and built like Jennifer lopez with a smaller ---- and larger breasts, i don't care if i am not a stick, my clothes fit great, all that matters in life, is what makes you happy and if that is a larger women go for it. Life is short, so don't delay, grab your happiness they say.
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Old 01-02-2010, 02:31 AM
 
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when i came to california,it was a shock for me and i needed time to get adjusted to the picture.The big majority of the women around, were overweight and they did not take care of tehmselves and their exterior.European women are more concerned about their weight and the way they look then american women and in usa 2/3 are overweight,europe is generally much slimmer and women take better care of themselves,diet,healthy food and so on.

because the big majority of the overweight women had also kids,i suppose the men hier in california liked them the way they looked,so i think,you are not alone in the opposite..
maybe you shoudl move to california,hier men and women,the big majority are overweight and you would not feel in minority...like i do (because i am a "skiny" european)
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Old 01-02-2010, 10:39 AM
 
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You look at society and EVERYTHING is targeted to size zero women. Every commercial, show, etc. However, for some reason, I find those women disgusting. When I am at a store, I find myself checking out the mom who has extra weight then the skinny college chick. My ex-wife is even plus size. I know alot of you don't believe me and that's ok. Am I wrong because I don't follow the rest of the crowd?
Nothing wrong with you at all.

I actually do not see what is so attractive about the extreme thinness of the HOllywood crowd where you can see every sinew in their neck, it kind of grosses me out honestly.

I am fat, and Ive had men be attracted to me.

Kg I have the opposite of Addisons, dont want to get into detail. LOL
But I can see why you are happy for your wife to be plus sized, a friend of mine almost died undiagnosed with Addisons.
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Old 01-02-2010, 04:04 PM
 
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I phrased the question completely wrong. I am meaning does society think I am dumb for being attracted to larger women? I had a long day...lol
I know what u meant and u r right... 2 times
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Old 01-02-2010, 06:07 PM
 
Location: California
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Unless a woman is naturally petite it is not a good look to be a size 2 or 0. On a tall woman that looks sick, even though the models are that way. Ever seen a model who wasn't done up professionally? Not a pretty sight. And like hugging a skeleton.

Normal wieght proportionate to height is what is considered attractive to most people in the real world. A little on the skinny side, a little on the pudgy side, doesn't really matter. The extremes are never good.
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Old 02-11-2010, 06:39 PM
 
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The faster you learn to not give a crap what other people think the sooner you will realize how happy you can be in your life.

Some people will never reach that point. They are constantly worried about what is and isn't socially acceptable that or trying to impress people who don't really care about them (ie. buying BMWs, designer clothes etc.)

If you like larger women, go for it!
Amen to that one.

Sadly, a lot of women still focus their energy on what others think of them and their respective relationships, rather than deciding for themselves what they actually like. Is it not somewhat reflective of why the divorce rate is increasing?

By the way, I love women who are big, bold, beautiful and tall. Even though we broke up years ago, one of my best relationships was with a woman who was bigger than me by at least 20 pounds and taller than me by 3 inches. She wasn't fat, just semi-fit with curves and little bit of muscle.

Fat bottomed girls make the rockin' world go round. Freddie Mercury and Queen said so and I strongly believe it still to this day.
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Old 02-12-2010, 12:48 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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I am VERY attracted to larger women...
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Old 02-12-2010, 01:28 PM
 
Location: In the Pearl of the Purchase, Ky
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Kg I have the opposite of Addisons, dont want to get into detail. LOL
But I can see why you are happy for your wife to be plus sized, a friend of mine almost died undiagnosed with Addisons.
She said she knew another woman near here who also had Addison's. She didn't like being fat so she didn't take most of her meds. Died in less than 2 years.
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Old 02-12-2010, 01:44 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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14!! Thats riddiculous - i wouldnt consider 14 as a plus size at all! Id start it at 18/20 myself. But im not a fashion leader
I think it depends on the height and build of the person. I wear a 12 or 14 depending on the brand name, and people tell me I look thin. BUT- I am also nearly 5' 10". (And so 'plus-sized' for a different reason.)
If a 5'2" woman wore a 12/14 I would think she would indeed be 'plus-sized' (and what others might consider 'fat').
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