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Old 06-15-2009, 06:32 PM
 
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I know this isn't a fashion forum but I have a friend who is very curvaceous and is ALWAYS wearing very revealing clothes...I'm talking about supershort/tight/low or is always in spandex or leggings..last time the weather was nice she had on shorts with her cheeks hanging out and a superlow cut top.. I'm like why . Don't get me wrong, she's a beautiful girl and I'm all for being sexy and glamorous but umm something ain't right. Can someone help me understand this mindset please?
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Old 06-15-2009, 06:34 PM
 
Location: southern california
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because nobody has invented a pair of shorts that only attracts billionaires.
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Old 06-15-2009, 06:37 PM
 
Location: Blankity-blank!
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Sounds like I missed being where your friend was.
Ah yes, those lovable cheeks! How I'd like to give them a little pinch!
I'll get stomped, but I like to see women wearing revealing clothes - that's one of the best parts of summer. So ladies, do your best! Especially the mature ladies!
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Old 06-15-2009, 06:43 PM
 
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Could be a lot of different reasons, hard to tell

- Insecure and needs, wants attention
- Has no fashion sense and doesn't realize she's over the top - men always thing women "know what they're doing" you need to just accept that no sometimes they really are clueless - maybe she doesn't have any friends comfortable enough to tell her she's hanging too much other there
- I suppose some women just like it
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Old 06-15-2009, 06:47 PM
 
Location: Somewhere in Kentucky
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I love the revealing clothing...all except spandex!!! A woman at work the other day was wearing spandex shorts to work (I kid you not) She turned around and noticed a massive camel toe. Normally I wouldn't mind, but she is just plain nasty.
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Old 06-15-2009, 06:52 PM
 
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I used to wear pretty revealing clothes and didn't realize it until many years later when I was looking through old family photos. I honestly had no idea! And I really believe a lot of other women, especially the young ones, aren't aware of what they're advertising, either.
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Old 06-15-2009, 07:15 PM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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She apparently just has really bad taste in clothes.
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Old 06-15-2009, 07:39 PM
 
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I know this isn't a fashion forum but I have a friend who is very curvaceous and is ALWAYS wearing very revealing clothes...I'm talking about supershort/tight/low or is always in spandex or leggings..last time the weather was nice she had on shorts with her cheeks hanging out and a superlow cut top.. I'm like why . Don't get me wrong, she's a beautiful girl and I'm all for being sexy and glamorous but umm something ain't right. Can someone help me understand this mindset please?
She's your friend isn't she? Why would you care what she wears?
You either know and like her regardless of her fashion sense or you don't AND as far as I can see in life, you can't change other people you can only change yourself, so maybe start focusing on why this bothers you and whether you truly consider this girl your friend.
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Old 06-15-2009, 07:43 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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These kinds of people are attention whores and usually only have their bodies going for them. A classy, smart girl covers up and leaves more to the imagination...thats what makes men want her.
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Old 06-15-2009, 07:43 PM
 
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Is she getting older and maybe trying to hang on to her youth?
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