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I am going through a very similar and recent situation with my wife and our two kids. Is there any way I can email you to ask what your experience has been since this posting? My ultimate desire is to have me and my family all under one roof.
Any insight you can shed would be greatly appreciated.
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I agree, seperation can make some peace, but the unresolved issues will resurface again if they are together, may be its personality, may be its past hurt, or whatever, temporary seperation is only one step away from divorce.
I agree with this. It's actually the first step. How can you fix something when you can't reach it? It just made it easier for me to tell my husband good-bye. But I don't regret that.
Best of luck to you and your wife and children. Even when it's the best thing for you, it's still tough.
As someone who has been through the trauma, pain and heartache of being separated from your wife and kids across states, is there any advice you can give me?
It was been over 3 months since I have been in this situation -- wife and kids in Seattle, and me in Los Angeles. There is a lot of tension and uncertainty clouding the situation. I have no idea when, how, and if we will be together as a family again, and I am turning over hopes and fears in my mind constantly.
Above all, I want us together and happy. I know my wife wants the latter, but I am unsure if she wants the former. Can you tell me anything about your experience that might be a help to me and others?
I greatly appreciate any thoughts, advice suggestions you have to share.
God Bless,
IntrospectiveMan
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