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Old 04-11-2010, 08:23 AM
 
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So I am friends with this girl and about a year ago me and her had what I'm guessing was a fling in her eyes but I genuinely had and still have strong feelings for her. We are still really good friends and I still flirt but it's like a joke to her and she just jokes back like its not a big deal. I have never been hooked on a girl for this long and it kills me when I see her even just kiss another guy. I still do want her but I don't know what to do...
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Old 04-11-2010, 08:29 AM
 
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The best thing to do is to break off the friendship. Honestly.
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Old 04-11-2010, 08:31 AM
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yep, if it gets to the point where her seeing other guys pisses you off best to just break things off with her completely. it'll only drive you nuts
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Old 04-11-2010, 08:34 AM
 
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I dont think i can do that though she is one of my best friends...
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Old 04-11-2010, 09:22 AM
 
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So I am friends with this girl and about a year ago me and her had what I'm guessing was a fling in her eyes but I genuinely had and still have strong feelings for her. We are still really good friends and I still flirt but it's like a joke to her and she just jokes back like its not a big deal. I have never been hooked on a girl for this long and it kills me when I see her even just kiss another guy. I still do want her but I don't know what to do...
I don't think you are much of a friend. You don't want her to be happy, your happiness matters more. You don't make her happy. Accept it.
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Old 04-11-2010, 09:27 AM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Either bite the bullet and tell her how you feel now or regret it later. At least it will tell you once and for all to either take the next step in the relationship or move on.
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Old 04-11-2010, 09:30 AM
 
Location: South FL
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So I am friends with this girl and about a year ago me and her had what I'm guessing was a fling in her eyes but I genuinely had and still have strong feelings for her. We are still really good friends and I still flirt but it's like a joke to her and she just jokes back like its not a big deal. I have never been hooked on a girl for this long and it kills me when I see her even just kiss another guy. I still do want her but I don't know what to do...

Ummm...tell her how you feel??????
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Old 04-11-2010, 09:33 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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yep, if it gets to the point where her seeing other guys pisses you off best to just break things off with her completely. it'll only drive you nuts
You need to find yourself another girl!
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Old 04-11-2010, 09:54 AM
 
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Here is what I would think if I was the woman in this situation.

"OK, I've pretended to like you long enough now. Give me some sex. If you don't give me some sex...then I don't feel I should have to waste anymore time on you."
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Old 04-11-2010, 10:00 AM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Here is what I would think if I was the woman in this situation.

"OK, I've pretended to like you long enough now. Give me some sex. If you don't give me some sex...then I don't feel I should have to waste anymore time on you."
Awe inspiring. You should start your own psychic network specializing in mind-reading. Seriously, I didn't get this impression from what was said. Trying to figure out how you did.
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