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Old 06-21-2009, 09:06 AM
 
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OMG, what effing losers. If I were at a party feeding off all that energy and alchohol and a loser came and started talking to me, I'd talk to him out of pity as well as out of having a drunken care free spirit. Let me tell you something about those scenes - allow me to tell you something about life in general, alchohol is the secret weapon that gets many ugly ducklings laid.
Yup. Woo hoo. The secret is out.
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Old 06-21-2009, 11:48 PM
 
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BORING!!!!!!!!!!!

Dude - you should just learn to dance!
I've explained this before

In the modern club scene, the ability to dance is completely WORTHLESS.

Do you listen to the music that's playing in the background of these videos? What kind of dance could possibly be compatible with this kind of music? What about rock-clubs?

I've been to clubs; I've seen guys who were master break dancers spin on their backs and heads, and girls just either laughed or walked away.

I'm asking you; what possible method of dance will help in this kind of scene?
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Old 06-21-2009, 11:50 PM
 
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I agree, sad shyt, most of this type of crap is just young guys trying to find their way in life. (hopefully)

Tried to rep you BTW.
Oh yes; how tragic; this guy's meeting hooking up with tonnes of beautiful women. How sad and pathetic his life is (end sarcasm)
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Old 06-21-2009, 11:53 PM
 
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Sadly, the pick-up artist phenomenon seems to be growing, not going away. Mystery, that anti-hero of love, seems to be one of the main culprits. The thing about his methods is that they do work. (I've seen them in action firsthand.) If what you're after is plenty of random sexual encounters, he's got the recipe. I feel so old for saying this, but Cyn ... you shouldn't go down this road. Seriously. After a few years of casual sex, you'll become hardened. Using people for your own gratification (sexual or otherwise) deadens you and your sensations to life. You should work on building worthwhile relationships with women, not this. No, I'm not saying no sex before marriage. And no, I'm not saying that you're an inherently bad person if you find yourself involved in an occassional drunken encounter or two .. but seriously, think about this.
You're completely missing the point.

Forget about the whole sex thing. How are you supposed to build worthwhile relationships if you can't get through the first barrier of JUST MEETING AND ATTRACTING THEM?

Knowing how to drive a car is completely worthless knowledge if you can't get a car in the first place.

Do you understand what I'm saying?
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Old 06-21-2009, 11:55 PM
 
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If a friend of yours was saying to you, "Dude .. I just discovered this way to make TONS of money, man. What you do is you present yourself as something you're not -- basically just manipulate people, bro, and sell yourself as something you're not just long enough to get to their wallet .. it's called a scam .. and this dude 'Misery' has developed this awesome system about how to be a 'scam artist.' " .. Would all of this strike you as something you should do? Don't go down this path man. That's my unsolicited advice to you. Or, if you do, set some rules for yourself. Don't lie. Ever. It's bad form .. it's not cool. You'll wake up being someone you don't like someday (someday sooner than you think).
How is this guy lying? How is this guy "using" them? How is he being "manipulative?"
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Old 06-22-2009, 12:03 AM
 
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Oh yes; how tragic; this guy's meeting hooking up with tonnes of beautiful women. How sad and pathetic his life is (end sarcasm)
You sure it's not set up like "reality" porn is?

It's not that hard to slip a half drunk bimbo 50 bucks to agree to appear on video role playing along to whatever your bud MEOW throws at them.

Heck for $20 bucks worth of cheap bead necklaces I can go to Panama City or New Orleans and have dozens of women show me their boobs on camera.

Ultimately I think in the long term your military Genghis Khan approach to women with "strategies", "outside the box thinking" and cut em off at the pass spec ops, isn't going to work.

Women can smell desperation from miles away. Whatever "strategies" you employ it will never work because the desperation will be stinking up the joint.
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Old 06-22-2009, 12:19 AM
 
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I can't even list all the things that make me find them laughable, foolish, and pitiful, all at the same time.
Then list 1 (this is going to be good...)
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Old 06-22-2009, 12:34 AM
 
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You're completely missing the point.

Forget about the whole sex thing. How are you supposed to build worthwhile relationships if you can't get through the first barrier of JUST MEETING AND ATTRACTING THEM?

Knowing how to drive a car is completely worthless knowledge if you can't get a car in the first place.

Do you understand what I'm saying?
You said that you didn't want worthwhile relatioships and only wanted quick flings. Do you know what you really want?
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Old 06-22-2009, 12:58 AM
 
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You said that you didn't want worthwhile relatioships and only wanted quick flings. Do you know what you really want?
Good lord, are you deliberately missing my point?

Forget about relationships! Forget about casual hookups!

I'm talking about MEETING WOMEN!

I'm talking about ATTRACTING WOMEN!

The skills needed to MEET and ATTRACT women for a casual hookup are the exact same as the skills needed to MEET and ATTRACT women for a serious relationship!

What I'm saying is, how could someone reasonably ask someone to build a relationship with a woman if they can't MEET and ATTRACT them in the first place?

Like wise, some of you said I should "just get a FB." NO ****!

But how am I supposed to get one if I'm still learning how to MEET and ATTRACT women?

Let's pretend that a serious relationship is a car that you own.

Now lets pretend that a casual relationship is a car that you rent

You know how to drive, but what good does that skill do you if you can't get your hands on a car in the first place?

NOW DO YOU UNDERSTAND?!!
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Old 06-22-2009, 01:06 AM
 
Location: Delaware...Oi
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Good lord, are you deliberately missing my point?

Forget about relationships! Forget about casual hookups!

I'm talking about MEETING WOMEN!

I'm talking about ATTRACTING WOMEN!

The skills needed to MEET and ATTRACT women for a casual hookup are the exact same as the skills needed to MEET and ATTRACT women for a serious relationship!

What I'm saying is, how could someone reasonably ask someone to build a relationship with a woman if they can't MEET and ATTRACT them in the first place?

Like wise, some of you said I should "just get a FB." NO ****!

But how am I supposed to get one if I'm still learning how to MEET and ATTRACT women?

Let's pretend that a serious relationship is a car that you own.

Now lets pretend that a casual relationship is a car that you rent

You know how to drive, but what good does that skill do you if you can't get your hands on a car in the first place?

NOW DO YOU UNDERSTAND?!!

Duh. No, could you explain it using crayola stick figures?


Lets pretend you've grasped the concept of deception. This is giving the external appearance of what is longed for or desired, with the substance missing.

Lets use your car analogy: This puts you selling the cars as a used car dealer, rolling back the odometer, resetting engine codes in the effort to make a sale regardless of shady methods. As the ends justify the means in your mind. Where as the dealer next to you sells the same cars but actually fixes them first, raising the price-tag a bit more as he still needs to make a profit, but is NOT doing so at the buyers overall expense.

It not only sells them short, as when the deception/novelty is gone, so will anything else, but it's also buying into the fact that your means justify the ends. If you want more confidence, great, go to a gym, get a counselor, practice doing the walk-ups with playful banter with substance behind it with another woman friend you might have, whatever. But employing a "method" is just playing a shady angle to get the persons initial interest. The "game" you will project will be the basis of the relationship, not the confidence to initiate playful banter with your own actual background, and interest in theirs.

That "game" will then need to be maintained, as in rationalized as to be your actual persona to keep any of these relationships. With the usual meaning behind it you no longer seeing an individual who was after the same thing you were to start with, but something to be conquered and broken to simplistically give only you what you desire.

NoW Do YoU UnDeRsTaNd?


I just wanted to do that last bit to see how many DM's I get with "bastid!" attached to it for doing it.

Thankyoupleasedrivethru

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