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I was seeing this guy last year, August to December. I told him off in early December because things weren't moving forward, he wasn't calling me enough, making time for me, etc.
So we didn't talk for months and then he got back in contact with me in March and we started up again. I checked out his myspace page and back in January this girl was leaving comments for him like "BACK OFF LADIES HE'S MINE" so I was kind of wondering who she was. He said she's just psycho and I probably shouldn't message her because she's psycho.
I messaged her to find out who she is and she is REALLY bitter and angry at my boyfriend. She is saying she got pregnant by him and had an abortion and she seems to hate him. (I believe this part) She also said he will always loves her and calls her crying every day. (I don't believe this part.) She wouldn't give me any timelines, like when all this happened.
I'm wondering why he didn't want me to talk to her? He didn't want me to know this? I don't know if she's lying because maybe she's just mad he's with someone new. Maybe he was seeing both of us at the same time? What do you think? Thanks!
I'm guessing he was seeing both of us at the same time last year, and that's why he didn't have enough time for me. Then she really did get pregnant and he freaked out (he doesn't want kids) and started ignoring her so she got abortion. Then he decided to come back to me. She still likes him and is bitter at him for leaving her when she got pregnant.
So we didn't talk for months and then he got back in contact with me in March and we started up again. I checked out his myspace page and back in January this girl was leaving comments for him like "BACK OFF LADIES HE'S MINE" so I was kind of wondering who she was. He said she's just psycho and I probably shouldn't message her because she's psycho.
Nothing fishy here, he had a thing with her in January, obviously had something going on in January and for all you know it's still going on.
Wow. What a soap opera! Are you sure that this guy is worth staying in a relationship with? But if you can accept the likely possibility that he was seeing the both of you at once, and that she got pregnant by him and he then walked away from his responsibilities, well if you plan to stay with him, I'm in agreement with him that you should just stay away from her. She's only going to try to poison you against him.
Think very hard about whether or not your boyfriend is a keeper. Why do you like him so much still?
I'm pretty sure they are not still seeing each other, because she said she has been STD tested twice since him (no STDs). She says she has a new boyfriend now too.
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Originally Posted by nicet4
Nothing fishy here, he had a thing with her in January, obviously had something going on in January and for all you know it's still going on.
People with that kind of drama in their lives usually invite it.
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