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Old 06-23-2009, 08:42 AM
 
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Does anyone get this feeling?

That whenever someone complains about hating the bar scene because all the girls are "floozies" and "phonies" and "bimboes" and "bar-skanks," that they're really just too ashamed to admit they don't know how to meet new people at bars?

I've met guys like this before, and I get the feeling that if they COULD meet a new woman every time they went out to the bar, they wouldn't hate it so much.
you can meet some of the nicest people in bars...they're not all low life...problem is, when people have been drinking, they are not the same as they would be normally....you can usually tell if someone is wasted....
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Old 06-23-2009, 08:48 AM
 
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At one time I mastered the ability to meet people in bars. Then I realized that they are all losers, and I stopped going to bars entirely! Dumpster diving...
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Old 06-23-2009, 10:03 AM
 
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At one time I mastered the ability to meet people in bars. Then I realized that they are all losers, and I stopped going to bars entirely! Dumpster diving...
What about the person who might go out to a bar once a year or even less?

your attitude generalizing all those who are in bars are loosers is very bitter and closed minded....maybe it's not them?
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Old 06-23-2009, 10:29 AM
 
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I agree with you for the most part. You meet the same people in bars that you meet in church... they're just wearing different clothes and putting on a different front. Same people underneath though.

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Does anyone get this feeling?

That whenever someone complains about hating the bar scene because all the girls are "floozies" and "phonies" and "bimboes" and "bar-skanks," that they're really just too ashamed to admit they don't know how to meet new people at bars?

I've met guys like this before, and I get the feeling that if they COULD meet a new woman every time they went out to the bar, they wouldn't hate it so much.
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Old 06-23-2009, 10:45 AM
 
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At one time I mastered the ability to meet people in bars. Then I realized that they are all losers, and I stopped going to bars entirely! Dumpster diving...
Ohhh the ignorance.... So all people who are in a bar are losers? You were in a bar. Wouldn't that make you a loser? Or are you that one shining 'winner'? The 'winner' who 'mastered the ability to meet people in bars'?
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Old 06-23-2009, 01:39 PM
 
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Why is it all his fault?

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Cy. I'm just going to tell you this once. Stay away from the bars. Based on your history of posts, you're evidently too socially inept to function in one. Instead, find the woman of your dreams in a quality setting.
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Old 06-23-2009, 01:40 PM
 
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They are not all losers but you will find really low quality loser type people at bars more often.

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Ohhh the ignorance.... So all people who are in a bar are losers? You were in a bar. Wouldn't that make you a loser? Or are you that one shining 'winner'? The 'winner' who 'mastered the ability to meet people in bars'?
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Old 06-23-2009, 01:53 PM
 
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Why is it all his fault?
Because every one of his threads is about his striking out in a bar. He's obviously a washout when it comes to meeting people there.
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Old 06-23-2009, 02:21 PM
 
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Maybe the people there aren't his type of people...

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Because every one of his threads is about his striking out in a bar. He's obviously a washout when it comes to meeting people there.
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Old 06-23-2009, 05:59 PM
 
Location: In the sticks, SC
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Maybe the people there aren't his type of people...
yeah, but when people try to advise him to where he can meet quality women he tells them he is not looking for a long term relationship. If you read Cyans previous posts, you know you gotta take whatever he says with a HUGE grain of salt
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