"I hate the bar scene because everyone there are all floozies and phonies" = "I don't know how to meet people at bars"? (dating, women)

[Cyanosphere]

Does anyone get this feeling?

That whenever someone complains about hating the bar scene because all the girls are "floozies" and "phonies" and "bimboes" and "bar-skanks," that they're really just too ashamed to admit they don't know how to meet new people at bars?

I've met guys like this before, and I get the feeling that if they COULD meet a new woman every time they went out to the bar, they wouldn't hate it so much.

[Whyte Byrd]

Originally Posted by Cyanosphere

Does anyone get this feeling?

That whenever someone complains about hating the bar scene because all the girls are "floozies" and "phonies" and "bimboes" and "bar-skanks," that they're really just too ashamed to admit they don't know how to meet new people at bars?

I've met guys like this before, and I get the feeling that if they COULD meet a new woman every time they went out to the bar, they wouldn't hate it so much.

I don't know the answer to this--I don't care to know the answer to this, but if that's what all the girls are, what does that make all the guys?

[sanrene]

Good lord! How many threads are you going to start with the same subject - you're ineptitude for scoring with the ladies?

Btw, didn't you say bye-bye in the not so distant past?

What happened - did they kick you off the other board, you know, the one that was gonna help you get laid?

[wanneroo]

I csychosphere needs his one spam thread to talk about all his "mystery" methods and other crap and we can keep the forum clean.

[artsyguy]

Isn't that what you have been experiencing yourself?

A lot of bars aren't good places to find dating or relationship material.

Try malls, book stores, churches, museums, art galleries, etc.

Originally Posted by Cyanosphere

Does anyone get this feeling?

That whenever someone complains about hating the bar scene because all the girls are "floozies" and "phonies" and "bimboes" and "bar-skanks," that they're really just too ashamed to admit they don't know how to meet new people at bars?

I've met guys like this before, and I get the feeling that if they COULD meet a new woman every time they went out to the bar, they wouldn't hate it so much.

[NotARedneck]

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Originally Posted by Cyanosphere
Does anyone get this feeling?

That whenever someone complains about hating the bar scene because all the girls are "floozies" and "phonies" and "bimboes" and "bar-skanks," that they're really just too ashamed to admit they don't know how to meet new people at bars?

I've met guys like this before, and I get the feeling that if they COULD meet a new woman every time they went out to the bar, they wouldn't hate it so much.

Originally Posted by Whyte Byrd

I don't know the answer to this--I don't care to know the answer to this, but if that's what all the girls are, what does that make all the guys?

Opportunists.

[Huckleberry3911948]

i could ---i could met people in bars. but i would already know 3 things about them.
they like to drink
they like to hang out in bars
they like bar people

[JL]

Keep in mind, people at bars are there to relax and do fun, out of the ordinary stuff, etc. , so they're less inclined to be themselves...especially when women and men are engaging...compounded by the drinking..which leads to superficiality.

[artsyguy]

Absolutely...3/4 of the people regardless of character are too distracted to make new friends or hunt for a love-mate at a bar or nightclub.

Originally Posted by JamesLang

Keep in mind, people at bars are there to relax and do fun, out of the ordinary stuff, etc. , so they're less inclined to be themselves...especially when women and men are engaging...compounded by the drinking..which leads to superficiality.

[victorianpunk]

Originally Posted by Cyanosphere

Does anyone get this feeling?

That whenever someone complains about hating the bar scene because all the girls are "floozies" and "phonies" and "bimboes" and "bar-skanks," that they're really just too ashamed to admit they don't know how to meet new people at bars?

I've met guys like this before, and I get the feeling that if they COULD meet a new woman every time they went out to the bar, they wouldn't hate it so much.

I think it's more of a issue that the people in question go to the wrong bar. I have met several people who never thought that in their thirties they might want to try happy hour instead of the same dive they have been going to since college

Also, generally the whole "bar scene" can indeed be to intimidating for some, and it might be that they simply prefer something less threatening, where not everyone is trying to pick up someone.