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Old 07-22-2009, 11:11 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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lol i have a big list

* smoking cigarettes- i dont care if he is a "social smoker" or a pack a day smoker; i do not want to date anyone who smokes period!
* someone who is BEYOND 420 friendly
* not into animals
* unsure or doesnt want kids- well if i am just looking to see someone casually at thats it, this is okay then.
* says the words dude and chill way too much (i just HATE hearing these expressions!)
* bad teeth
* body piercings
* vulgar tattoos
* poor manners
* obvious signs of checking out other women on the first date
* self employed- yeah i know a lot of people claim to make a good living with this, but for some reason, i just say no to self employed men
* men who work in real estate
* dropped out of high school
* someone who insists they were too smart for college which is why they didnt go. yes i believe there are some people this is true for, but most people who say it, i dont buy it.
* posters on the wall of naked women or women in bikinis (but im okay with him having a porn collection lol)
* hunts
* bad skin
* has ANY std

i have make a wallet size card of this and laminate it. when i meet a guy, give it to him and see if he meets this criteria hah.
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Old 07-23-2009, 02:09 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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I wouldn't date someone who had guns. Handguns, shotguns, rifles, whatever. Because my home is gun-free, and I'd like to keep it that way.
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Old 07-23-2009, 04:36 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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im editing what i said, because i am thinking it was a little mean to respond to you.

being that i added a "hah", i said that as a joke. if you didnt find it funny, well sorry. i did which is why i said it because it reminded me of an episode of friends.

if you are offended by what i said, you might as well be offended by anyone who has turnoffs. i just have more.

i dont WANT to go out with a guy even a 1st time if i am so turned off by him. i think it is pretty cruel to go out with someone if you know before hand that you arent interested for whatever reason. i wouldnt want a guy going out with me if he feels the same way. i dont want to waste anyone's time, and i dont want my time wasted. its like if a guy was turned off by short women with a lot of body hair, i wouldnt want them dating me because they wouldnt be attracted to me.

i think it is important that you realize we all have different kinds of turn offs. if you said something like "short,stumpy legs (which i have)" i wouldnt say "oh gee you are so obnoxious". we like what we like, and we should tolerate that from each other.
Of course everyone has turn offs that's not what I was questioning, just the whole laminate card thing just seemed odd to me. I would think you could find out most of you're turn offs pretty easy without putting out a laminate card.

I guess I don't understand, do you hand out a laminate card of you're things you don't like in a guy?

You did put the Hah there, but it still sounds like you do pass out the card????
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Old 07-23-2009, 04:58 PM
 
Location: here.
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If a suggest a place for a date and the girl says "ohh yeah lets do that, i haven't been there since i got out of prison"
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Old 07-23-2009, 05:48 PM
 
Location: Reno
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Of course everyone has turn offs that's not what I was questioning, just the whole laminate card thing just seemed odd to me. I would think you could find out most of you're turn offs pretty easy without putting out a laminate card.

I guess I don't understand, do you hand out a laminate card of you're things you don't like in a guy?

You did put the Hah there, but it still sounds like you do pass out the card????
that line was a joke. i based it around an episode of friends it reminded me of. guess you arent a fan of the friends. ross and rachel were talking about 5 people they were allowed to cheat on if they ever came across that person. ross decided to laminate a card with the 5 women on it. his number 6 who did not make the top 5 was actress isabella rossalini. she walks into central perk (thats where they have coffee) and he runs over to her saying she is one of the people rachel (ross's girlfriend) will allow him to sleep with and that he has a laminated card. isabella asks to see it and ross remembers she didnt make the top 5.

still dont find it funny?

if not thats okay. we all have different sense of humor. you might prefer monty python, and i prefer will farrell movies.
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Old 07-23-2009, 05:50 PM
 
Location: Reno
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add goes to strip clubs regularly and pays for sex or "massages" . i forgot about that.
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Old 07-23-2009, 06:09 PM
 
Location: Reno, Nevada
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Nose Pickers...Digging for gold...
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Old 07-23-2009, 06:09 PM
 
Location: Reno
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Nose Pickers...Digging for gold...
pick me a winner
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Old 07-23-2009, 06:13 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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that line was a joke. i based it around an episode of friends it reminded me of. guess you arent a fan of the friends. ross and rachel were talking about 5 people they were allowed to cheat on if they ever came across that person. ross decided to laminate a card with the 5 women on it. his number 6 who did not make the top 5 was actress isabella rossalini. she walks into central perk (thats where they have coffee) and he runs over to her saying she is one of the people rachel (ross's girlfriend) will allow him to sleep with and that he has a laminated card. isabella asks to see it and ross remembers she didnt make the top 5.

still dont find it funny?

if not thats okay. we all have different sense of humor. you might prefer monty python, and i prefer will farrell movies.
LOL, I liked Friends as well as Seinfeld too.
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Old 07-23-2009, 06:14 PM
 
Location: Reno, Nevada
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A male friend wanted me to include...
"Camel Toes & Moose Knuckles"

Thats a winner!!
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