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Old 06-29-2009, 12:04 AM
Status: "Partially taking all the blame" (set 27 days ago)
 
Location: Tampa, Florida
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Oh, dear... you really need a psychology book or two... Hope you enjoy your brand of "communicative" happiness, but recommending it to others can be harmful.
Agreed, 100%.
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Old 06-29-2009, 12:10 AM
 
Location: southern california
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art has little or nothing to do with money. women dont have to worry about money if they are good looking. guys do. you are not on the same page.
go do the money thing after you get that in order do the art and woman thing.
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Old 07-12-2009, 03:16 AM
 
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It's over I have to move on. I told her straight up how I felt and it blew up in my face.
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Old 07-12-2009, 03:19 AM
 
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The funny thing is I didnt receive any of these updates for the posts in my e-mail so when i finally checked back on this to see what happened I was surprised by all the great advice in all respects almost all of you were right in some way.
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Old 07-12-2009, 01:39 PM
Status: "Partially taking all the blame" (set 27 days ago)
 
Location: Tampa, Florida
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It's over I have to move on. I told her straight up how I felt and it blew up in my face.
Congrats man. It takes a set of balls to stand up for yourself and go after what you want. I know you didn't get the results you wanted and you probably feel kinda ****ty right now, but look on the bright side and realize that even though it hurts, it would have hurt alot more had you waited.

Care to share the details?
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Old 07-12-2009, 01:51 PM
 
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I'm really sorry. You have my sympathies. You sound like a very cool person. I can also relate. Good luck in the future. Be more selective when choosing who you sleep with.

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It's over I have to move on. I told her straight up how I felt and it blew up in my face.

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The funny thing is I didnt receive any of these updates for the posts in my e-mail so when i finally checked back on this to see what happened I was surprised by all the great advice in all respects almost all of you were right in some way.
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Old 07-15-2009, 02:31 AM
 
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I'll give you cats the update in the morrow. It went kinda rough I got too attached too quick. But when you find someone that emphasizes all that your about and trying to regain it can be heartbreaking.
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Old 07-15-2009, 02:33 AM
 
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ya know this is my first time really doing this on a site like this guess I really cared about her
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Old 07-15-2009, 02:51 AM
 
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What a woman! You must respect her wishes completely! She knows exactly what she wants from a logical perspective. You seem not to have the same where-with-all she is gifted with. Get out of her way mon! If you don't get out of her way now...you will be trampled later! Your choice.

Take it like a mon, mon! And realize that she is a stout-hearted and focused woman! You are lacking in that department.

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Old 07-15-2009, 08:14 AM
 
Location: Colorado Springs, CO
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Women are told this all the time ... & I'm sorry, but it's sounds true in your case.
She's just not that into you.
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