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06-28-2009, 03:06 PM
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Location: So Cal
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Originally Posted by heatwave13
But, we might as well face it....myself and others....some folks will think we're attractive while others won't give us a second look. It's in the eye of the beholder.
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To some I'm a hot dude.
To others I'm a troll.
Beauty really is in the of the beholder.
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06-28-2009, 05:20 PM
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Location: Tampa, FL...aka Hell with palm trees.
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Originally Posted by orangeapple
I notice a lot of people here rating people's looks with numbers. They talk about someone being an "8" or a "4", or whatever. It seems men in particular like to rate women with their male friends and use this terminology as if there is some universal scale.
Is this something that you do? What is your thinking about this?
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Yes, but I use this system.
TuckerMax.com (http://www.tuckermax.com/archives/entries/the_tucker_max_female_rating_system.phtml - broken link)
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Reducing someone to a number is sheer objectification.
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Call it what you want, but it's a perfectly legitimate concept.
To rate the women, obviously.
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It implies there is an objective standard of beauty
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No, it doesn't.
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promotes a value based solely on appearance
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Well duh.
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and discourages individual taste.
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No, it doesn't. Obviously each person assigns the ratings as they see fit.
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To me, it's almost a power thing. People get some kind of enjoyment from degrading a person to others, and whether you're a 0 or a 10, it's a degradation from complex individual to eye candy.
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There is nothing degrading about, unless you're one of the ugly ones I guess.
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06-28-2009, 08:16 PM
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Let me see your photo so I can rate you.
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Originally Posted by Chowhound
To some I'm a hot dude.
To others I'm a troll.
Beauty really is in the of the beholder.
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06-28-2009, 08:25 PM
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Yeah, let's see it.
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Originally Posted by artsyguy
Let me see your photo so I can rate you.
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06-28-2009, 08:28 PM
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Location: So Cal
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Right said Fred' got nothing on me.
I'm too sexy for my self. 
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06-28-2009, 09:06 PM
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Well you said you are hot to some and others not. So put up a photo on the profile.
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Originally Posted by Chowhound
Right said Fred' got nothing on me.
I'm too sexy for my self. 
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06-28-2009, 09:07 PM
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Originally Posted by artsyguy
Well you said you are hot to some and others not. So put up a photo on the profile.
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Why don't you go first??  
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06-28-2009, 09:13 PM
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Most people think I'm hot therefore I don't need to be rated .
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Originally Posted by mrstewart
Why don't you go first??  
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06-28-2009, 09:14 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by artsyguy
Most people think I'm hot therefore I don't need to be rated .
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Ok, what constitutes "most" in Artsy's world?   
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06-28-2009, 09:19 PM
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Location: So Cal
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Quote:
Originally Posted by mrstewart
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Hey, I said I'm hot to some, that may be a minority, but what the heck, it's still "some". 
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