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Unread 06-28-2009, 03:06 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Originally Posted by heatwave13 View Post
But, we might as well face it....myself and others....some folks will think we're attractive while others won't give us a second look. It's in the eye of the beholder.
To some I'm a hot dude.

To others I'm a troll.

Beauty really is in the of the beholder.
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Unread 06-28-2009, 05:20 PM
 
Location: Tampa, FL...aka Hell with palm trees.
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I notice a lot of people here rating people's looks with numbers. They talk about someone being an "8" or a "4", or whatever. It seems men in particular like to rate women with their male friends and use this terminology as if there is some universal scale.

Is this something that you do? What is your thinking about this?
Yes, but I use this system.

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Reducing someone to a number is sheer objectification.
Call it what you want, but it's a perfectly legitimate concept.

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What is even the point?
To rate the women, obviously.

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It implies there is an objective standard of beauty
No, it doesn't.

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promotes a value based solely on appearance
Well duh.

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and discourages individual taste.
No, it doesn't. Obviously each person assigns the ratings as they see fit.

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To me, it's almost a power thing. People get some kind of enjoyment from degrading a person to others, and whether you're a 0 or a 10, it's a degradation from complex individual to eye candy.
There is nothing degrading about, unless you're one of the ugly ones I guess.
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Unread 06-28-2009, 08:16 PM
 
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Let me see your photo so I can rate you.

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To some I'm a hot dude.

To others I'm a troll.

Beauty really is in the of the beholder.
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Unread 06-28-2009, 08:25 PM
 
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Yeah, let's see it.

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Let me see your photo so I can rate you.
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Unread 06-28-2009, 08:28 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Right said Fred' got nothing on me.

I'm too sexy for my self.
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Unread 06-28-2009, 09:06 PM
 
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Well you said you are hot to some and others not. So put up a photo on the profile.

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Right said Fred' got nothing on me.

I'm too sexy for my self.
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Unread 06-28-2009, 09:07 PM
 
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Well you said you are hot to some and others not. So put up a photo on the profile.
Why don't you go first??
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Unread 06-28-2009, 09:13 PM
 
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Most people think I'm hot therefore I don't need to be rated .

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Why don't you go first??
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Unread 06-28-2009, 09:14 PM
 
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Most people think I'm hot therefore I don't need to be rated .
Ok, what constitutes "most" in Artsy's world?
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Unread 06-28-2009, 09:19 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Ok, what constitutes "most" in Artsy's world?
Hey, I said I'm hot to some, that may be a minority, but what the heck, it's still "some".
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