How to stop a long-time chase between us? (girls, love, Chinese)

[Deanm.chen]

Hey, everyone!
First of all, I have a question about "why do all girls like to be chasing in a love?" They really don't worry about losing the right one eventually? Do they think its just a dangerous adventure, and with more risk?
Secondly, Can men do some with strategy, stop the chasing game as soon as possible? What I can do? I've already spent almost 2 years pursuing her, and I don't think that I enjoy this behavior. She always calls me "bastard" recently, said "get away", and let me leave her alone. I can make sure that she loves me too, But why she does not accept me until now! You know, she flew 13 hours for staying here for giving me the chance to meet her. How can I get her heart, and let's get on the right track that its about time we got to be. I really don't know what she wants, wasting time?

You can give me some experience for handling this, right? Girls or men, please leave your posts! Thanks a lot!!

P.S. She is American, and I am a Chinese boy.

[Granny Sue]

Easy....if she says "get away" and "leave me alone" do just that.
Don't let her call you bastard either.

She's either very serious about not wanting to be with you or......

She's a needy insecure control freak. Likes to see someone grovel.

Don't contact her and if she then contacts you and wants to know what happened tell her you won't be talked to that way.

Grow a pair and stand up to her.

I loathe the games people play with each other.