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Old 07-01-2009, 03:44 PM
 
Location: Rockland County New York
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So many women look at me and when they get close they look away. I don't know what’s up. I am not putting out the vibe that I am looking and am usually in the company of my six year old daughter. How should I take this?
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Old 07-01-2009, 03:48 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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So many women look at me and when they get close they look away. I don't know what’s up. I am not putting out the vibe that I am looking and am usually I am in the company of my six year old daughter. How should I take this?
I know what you mean.

I got so sick of it and I started to wave after the female gives 3 or 4 glances. That either reduces them into complete shyness or the somewhat non-timid ones wave back with a smile

It happens mostly in the gym
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Old 07-01-2009, 03:50 PM
 
Location: Rockland County New York
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I know what you mean.

I got so sick of it and I started to wave after the female gives 3 or 4 glances. That either reduces them into complete shyness or the somewhat non-timid ones wave back with a smile

It happens mostly in the gym
That's one way to handle it friend.
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Old 07-01-2009, 03:56 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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That's one way to handle it friend.
Probably the best I would say. It's kind of embarrassing/annoying/distracting to trade eyes.

A wave, handshake and chat kind of spills the beans and then the glances are replaced by conversation
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Old 07-01-2009, 04:00 PM
 
Location: Tucson, AZ
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I have one that I like to do at stoplights. If I catch a female looking at me from the next car over, I will watch and see if they look back, after they look away. If they do, I have my premade "Show me your boobies" sign ready.

This will do one of two things. Get them to stop looking at me at the next light - or I get to see some tatas!
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Old 07-01-2009, 04:05 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I have one that I like to do at stoplights. If I catch a female looking at me from the next car over, I will watch and see if they look back, after they look away. If they do, I have my premade "Show me your boobies" sign ready.

This will do one of two things. Get them to stop looking at me at the next light - or I get to see some tatas!
LOL that's a little too much.

But here's what I do in the highway.

I have tons of annoying tailgaters...... I admit I'm not a speed freak. I enjoy my loud music in my car and never cross 70 for a 65mph highway.

So they tailgate for half a minute, turn their lights on (remember I am not even on the fast lanes to the left, it's the humble 3rd line, adjacent to exits) then angrily take the next lane and pass me with an angry look or sometimes the finger...... these days when someone does this to me, as they make their angry face, I stick my tongue out at them LMAO
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Old 07-01-2009, 04:09 PM
 
Location: Rockland County New York
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I just don't know why they are looking at me. I am not as young as some of you guys. I wear a pretty noticeable wedding band and my children are often with me. I am not ugly and my weight is well managed but at age 40 there are much younger men for women to look at.
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Old 07-01-2009, 04:12 PM
 
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I just don't know why they are looking at me. I am not as young as some of you guys. I wear a pretty noticeable wedding band and my children are often with me. I am not ugly and my weight is well managed but at age 40 there are much younger men for women to look at.
If they are looking, then they obviously see something they like. I don't see why it is causing you concern, unless they are following you home. I don't think you need to "take it" for anything more than that.
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Old 07-01-2009, 04:13 PM
 
Location: Tucson, AZ
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A pretty lady is a pretty lady, regardless of whether she is 20 or 40.
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Old 07-01-2009, 04:17 PM
 
Location: Rockland County New York
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If they are looking, then they obviously see something they like. I don't see why it is causing you concern, unless they are following you home. I don't you need to "take it" for anything more than that.
I don't know why it is bothering me. I am glad they see something they like. What it is can remain a mystery.
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