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Old 07-03-2009, 08:10 PM
 
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oh well just wondering what counts most for a man to be attracted. A smart girl but she aint that pretty enough or a beauty but cant hold a good convo.

I know this can help ladies who wants mens attention. Like me
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Old 07-03-2009, 08:13 PM
 
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If you can't keep up with me I'm not interested. I don't care how good you look.

Of course if you are beautiful and smart, well... I'm in love maybe.
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Old 07-03-2009, 08:14 PM
Status: "The whole world is a stage..." (set 25 days ago)
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Different strokes for different folks...some guys like them classy, some like 'em trashy. Some like blonds, brunettes, latin, Asian, etc. Just be yourself to attract the guy you will be most compatable with. Eventually the real you comes to the surface. As for physical attraction, there is someone for everyone. Think about the guy you want to attract and behave accordingly without having to compromise who you are.
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Old 07-03-2009, 08:19 PM
 
Location: Delaware...Oi
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oh well just wondering what counts most for a man to be attracted. A smart girl but she aint that pretty enough or a beauty but cant hold a good convo.

I know this can help ladies who wants mens attention. Like me
True answer from my perspective? There are physical attraction personal limits, but I'd rather have a considered more than imperfect physical appearance to one showing a lack of intelligence.
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Old 07-03-2009, 08:37 PM
 
Location: Tetons, WY
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For me it's a balance:

70% beauty, 30% brains. I get turned off with materialistic women that are very beautiful.
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Old 07-04-2009, 01:47 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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I don't see how it's an either/or situation....doesn't everyone want the best looking, smartest, coolest person they can get?

When it comes to men, I must be physically attracted, and we must click intellectually & emotionally. I can overlook more physical flaws than personality flaws though.
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Old 07-04-2009, 01:52 AM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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I don't see how it's an either/or situation....doesn't everyone want the best looking, smartest, coolest person they can get?
I agree with this. I want someone who is attractive and intelligent.

The operative word in the OP is "Attract". What type of girls attract the most guys? The answer is very very simple - beauty. They may not necessarily be able to attract AND keep guys interested, but a beautiful woman definitely can out-attract a smart woman when it comes to sheer numbers.
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Old 07-04-2009, 01:54 AM
 
Location: southern california
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neither happy girls trump anything.

happy 4th july

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Old 07-04-2009, 02:07 AM
 
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From what I noticed about guys, is that a lot of them go for the confident type of woman. And even if she's not that preety, being clever can really help these women snag a man.
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Old 07-04-2009, 02:19 AM
 
Location: Delaware...Oi
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From what I noticed about guys, is that a lot of them go for the confident type of woman. And even if she's not that preety, being clever can really help these women snag a man.
Yes, with a caveat. Just because your smart doesn't mean your socially so, nor is that a given indicator of being smart. The cleverness earned socially to get who you wish isn't a given for either sex, and something more learned from experience then intellect.
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