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When I look back at my life I have always struggled making friends with people I really had chemistry with. Many of my so called friends were just partners of convenience. I think both of us knew that there was no chemistry or mutual interests but we settled and interacted with each other just because we had no one else. Eventually, we got irratated with each other and got on each others nerves because we had so little in common and spent to much time together.
How about you, would you rather spend the weekend alone or with someone you really had no chemistry with and little in common but were another human being to spend time with, when a true friend was not available???
I'd rather be alone. I do not have a need to be with someone at all times, especially someone who I'm not crazy about. I've had friends who never want to be alone, and the would invite people they really didn't like to go to movies or shopping just to be with someone.
I would much rather spend the day alone. If you're with someone you don't have chemistry with or can't even hold a conversation with them, it's like you're alone anyway, right?
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Originally Posted by Weekend Traveler
When I look back at my life I have always struggled making friends with people I really had chemistry with. Many of my so called friends were just partners of convenience. I think both of us knew that there was no chemistry or mutual interests but we settled and interacted with each other just because we had no one else. Eventually, we got irratated with each other and got on each others nerves because we had so little in common and spent to much time together.
How about you, would you rather spend the weekend alone or with someone you really had no chemistry with and little in common but were another human being to spend time with, when a true friend was not available???
When I was young, I always wanted to be around people rather than being alone. I equated alone with being lonely. After I got hurt very badly, I decided that being alone was preferable to being with someone unacceptable. I think when you can be alone and happy you're truly whole.
Definitely rather be alone. I actually LIKE myself enough to spend a day alone.
I like my own company BETTER than more boring one. The reason I'm active on forums is the opportunity to pick and choose whom you "socialize" with from a big pool.
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