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Old 07-10-2009, 11:52 PM
Location: Tennessee
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I see how long your other threads you started lasted?
Lets see....if this one will take off? Hmmmm...
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Old 07-11-2009, 02:09 AM
Location: Denver, CO
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I don't see a problem with kissing on the first date. I think a nice, normal kiss is fine, not a soap-opera, tonsil-hockey kind of kiss. (that's for the 2nd date! )

Originally Posted by Raena77 View Post
I haven't dated for awhile....and wanted to know would you kiss on the first date? Or should people wait for date 3...6...9 and so forth?

Ladies? Men?
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Old 07-11-2009, 02:19 AM
Location: sandy
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I am also back into the dating scene and I think that it is ok to hold out the first date, it depends on if you have talked for quite some time on the phone, or internet. I wont go on a date unless I have chatted or talked on the phone for several times, I have even lost out on dates because I wont call them the minute they give me their phone number. I want to know something about the person before I decide to meet them, if we have nothing in common then why go on the date?

I think a nice hug is a gesture that lets them know you are interested. If he is interested he will call back, the kiss is not a requirement. That is my opinion. But again if you do kiss make it a nice quick one no making out. This will also help you weed out the guys that are just interested in one thing only... hmmmm.

good luck with it, and be safe and just be yourself, if you feel it then do it go with your heart it should not lie to you...
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Old 07-11-2009, 03:23 AM
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I have sex on the first encounter and if I don't then I don't contact her anymore.

No point going after someone who isn't sexually attracted to you.
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Old 07-11-2009, 03:42 AM
Location: Some place very cold
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By first date, do you mean the first time you've ever met them?

If there is a lot of chemistry, it can be hard to resist!
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Old 07-11-2009, 04:19 AM
Location: USA
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Originally Posted by natalayjones View Post
I have horrible flashbacks and run into the night screaming.
Hi, Nat.

Remember me?

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Old 07-11-2009, 05:05 AM
Location: Ohio
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I've given a guy a peck on the cheek.
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Old 07-11-2009, 05:07 AM
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I always stick my tongue down a woman's throat on the first date. That is just how I roll.
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Old 07-11-2009, 07:21 AM
Location: transient!
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If you are actually attracted to someone a nice lingering kiss can end the night on a great tone...but I would strictly avoid any making out sessions on the first date..im not a prude at all, far from it but i think its kind of tacky!

as for you killer2021..tut tut for the bad attitude!
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Old 07-11-2009, 07:39 AM
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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You'd be lucky to get me to touch you on a first date...or let you touch me. Too soon.
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