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Old 07-12-2009, 08:23 PM
 
Location: Incognito
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Can he share some?

 
Old 07-12-2009, 08:38 PM
 
Location: zippidy doo dah
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Default reminds me of the time...........

should i do a wc fields imitation????? seriously reminds me of the time i found a prescription bag receipt blown onto the front yard of my house. i picked it up and it was some of that veeagray.....yes, some of that veeagray - and so i logged on line for the walmart store as that was where the preescripshun was from ...........and i figgered my husband would not have set up an account on line and he had not so i was able to set up an account for him, being as i knew enough about him and then i was able to view his preeescripshun log.... long story short, it appeared that everytime he was away for a weekend, he was filling some of them veeagrays or cialis or one of them other energizing formulas and ya know, it was almost fun following the escapades for the next few months until the divorce and then following it beyond. i shouldn't laugh but seriously speaking, if she found it in his travel bag, i would suspect he's not using it for the home tour de france. call me a cynic - but call me "out of here" as well.

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My best friend needed a travel size shampoo and knew her husband would have one in his travel bag. As she was getting it, she found a prescription bottle with Viagra with someone else's name on the bottle. She was surprised/shocked/confused and when she asked him about it, he blew up.
Accused her of snooping and wouldn't tell her why he had it.

She thinking about beating him with a baseball bat while he sleeps. I'm wondering if he's having a medical issue and was embarrassed to tell her. But why would would the bottle have someone else's name on it?

Any thoughts??
 
Old 07-13-2009, 02:46 PM
 
Location: Portlandia "burbs"
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Hmmm. Well, if she hadn't noticed any, uh ~ changes in the bedroom, then I think it's safe to assume that she isn't 'who' he had in mind for the pills. I'd be worried.
 
Old 07-13-2009, 02:55 PM
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Location: Atlanta, Ga
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I would also have trouble with the over reaction to finding it as well. I know one poster said her hubby did the same thing and all was well but I would feel better if the person just gott red in the face and said gee I am sooo embarrassed I just couldn't tell you. but a man that travels, it is in his travel bag, under a another persons name and gets mad, tried to turn it around by accusing the wife of snooping is pretty much busted in my book
Right!! The major part is the anger.......anger usually is because they want to deflect from their wrong doing.
 
Old 07-13-2009, 03:20 PM
 
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OP here. I saw my friend today at church. This is soooo messed up.

The name on the prescription is her father-in-law who will be 78 years old in 2 months and has been widowed for 5 years. AND he is a REALLY unhealthy man. She can't understand why his doctor would give it to him, then why her husband had it.

She told me a lot of stuff today that I had no idea about. Her husband has never had an *issue* in their marriage. This guy was getting sex EVERYDAY then pouted, whined and complained when it slowed down after my friend had 2 babies in less than 2 years. Plus, they already had 4 kids. He told her if she didn't give it to him as often as he wanted it , EVERYDAY, he'd get it somewhere else. Things have been strained since then.

I don't ANYBODY having sex on a daily basis...
Why wasn't he at church? He sounds like a nice moral godfearing gent. Oh, excuse me, I meant a controlling bully a-hole abuser. Regardless of this whole Viagra mystery, she should kick the loser to the curb.
 
Old 07-13-2009, 11:44 PM
 
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Default I Could be Involved

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Husband has secret stash of Viagra hidded in a travel bag??

Any thoughts??
A friend, living in another state, mentioned that he could use some but couldn't afford it. I have a good medical plan and "complained" to my doctor that I had a problem. He wrote a prescription and the next time we met, I sold it to my friend at 20% of full cost - my after insurance cost.

Shortly thereafter, my friend's wife leaves him. Was it:

1) she liked him the way he was before?

2) she thought we had a gay relationship?

3) she thought he was cheating?

Only one difference. My prescription was for Cialis.

Many posters are mighty suspicious about something that might be innocent.
 
Old 07-14-2009, 09:53 AM
 
Location: Rockwall
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My friends husband told her he got the Viagra from his Dad because he didn't need it. He wanted to try it with her but was afraid of what she would think.

She is having a hard time believing him. He works with a woman- his boss- that is divorced. When she first came to the company, he hated her. He complained about her daily. After she gave him a promotion, she could do no wrong. When my friend noted the change in his opinion of her, he acted really defensive. He started coming home later, 2 to 3 hours late. 2 to 3 hour working lunches with her. Business trips together. My friend had just given birth to their last child and they already had 5 kids. She does everything around the house and yard and for those kids. It was during this time her husband told her if she didn't give him sex everyday, he would get it somewhere else.

I think he is having a mid-life crisis. With this woman at work. My friend asked him and he accused her of being insecure and jealous. It just keeps getting worse.
 
Old 07-14-2009, 10:25 AM
 
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My friends husband told her he got the Viagra from his Dad because he didn't need it. He wanted to try it with her but was afraid of what she would think.

She is having a hard time believing him. He works with a woman- his boss- that is divorced. When she first came to the company, he hated her. He complained about her daily. After she gave him a promotion, she could do no wrong. When my friend noted the change in his opinion of her, he acted really defensive. He started coming home later, 2 to 3 hours late. 2 to 3 hour working lunches with her. Business trips together. My friend had just given birth to their last child and they already had 5 kids. She does everything around the house and yard and for those kids. It was during this time her husband told her if she didn't give him sex everyday, he would get it somewhere else.

I think he is having a mid-life crisis. With this woman at work. My friend asked him and he accused her of being insecure and jealous. It just keeps getting worse.
Ugh. What a depressing thread.
6 kids? Seriously....what the heck.
There are also two sides to every story.
Sounds like this one if over.
 
Old 07-14-2009, 10:36 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Originally Posted by Dragonfly8 View Post
My best friend needed a travel size shampoo and knew her husband would have one in his travel bag. As she was getting it, she found a prescription bottle with Viagra with someone else's name on the bottle. She was surprised/shocked/confused and when she asked him about it, he blew up.
Accused her of snooping and wouldn't tell her why he had it.

She thinking about beating him with a baseball bat while he sleeps. I'm wondering if he's having a medical issue and was embarrassed to tell her. But why would would the bottle have someone else's name on it?

Any thoughts??
I see alot of people jumping to conclusions, saying he is seeing someone else. Its possible he was having performance issues with his wife and was taking them for her. No-one mentioned this in the intial dozen posts or so, so thought I would. It could be that simple. Then again there are many other possiblities and without knowing more details, its tough to be conclusive.
 
Old 07-14-2009, 10:40 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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"My friends husband told her he got the Viagra from his Dad because he didn't need it. He wanted to try it with her but was afraid of what she would think.

She is having a hard time believing him. He works with a woman- his boss- that is divorced. When she first came to the company, he hated her. He complained about her daily. After she gave him a promotion, she could do no wrong. When my friend noted the change in his opinion of her, he acted really defensive. He started coming home later, 2 to 3 hours late. 2 to 3 hour working lunches with her. Business trips together. My friend had just given birth to their last child and they already had 5 kids. She does everything around the house and yard and for those kids. It was during this time her husband told her if she didn't give him sex everyday, he would get it somewhere else.

I think he is having a mid-life crisis. With this woman at work. My friend asked him and he accused her of being insecure and jealous. It just keeps getting worse."


OK have just read that which changes my above post. Yeah likely to be seeing someone else. Relationship on the rocks big time.
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