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Old 07-13-2009, 07:43 PM
 
Location: Democratic Peoples Republic of Redneckistan
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I treat all women EXACTLY the same...with the same degree of respect that they give me.That's regardless of WHAT they look like.I have NEVER kissed ANYONE'S ass,much less some woman who thought she deserved it.Nice to me,twice as nice to you,mean to me,100 times as mean to you.Hot has nothing to do with it.Respect is where it's all at for me.MUTUAL respect.
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Old 07-13-2009, 07:49 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I treat all women EXACTLY the same...with the same degree of respect that they give me.That's regardless of WHAT they look like.I have NEVER kissed ANYONE'S ass,much less some woman who thought she deserved it.Nice to me,twice as nice to you,mean to me,100 times as mean to you.Hot has nothing to do with it.Respect is where it's all at for me.MUTUAL respect.
So, you don't turn your other cheek? Neither do I. I also believe in treating people the same way they treat me. This brings up a tired example - I'm not gonna smile sweetly at a rude waiter just because that happens to be cpg's #1 rule of dating!

I respect that!
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Old 07-13-2009, 07:58 PM
 
Location: The brown house on the cul de sac
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Let's be honest here. I think SOME attractive women think, because they are attractive, that means that they deserve a AWESOME guy.

Because YOU are attractive that only means one thing........you are attractive. It certainly does not say anything about your morals and values and the quality of your character.

At what point in life do you stop using your looks to define youself? Most of us guys on CD would say we've dated nice looking women before and most of us would agree that looks do fad and they fad fast once you determine you're with some crazy B#%^ch!


In this day and age for some odd reason there a LOTS of Narcissistic women walking around.


It's just like if someone says: I have a great job, a nice ride and a home, they assume those are "qualities", that makes them a good catch. Are they important? Yes. Are those the things guys are looking at to determine if you're a good catch or not? Probably not.


What's your take........
This may have already been addressed in the previous pages and I apologize if it has....but..

The first thing that attracts a person to another is usually something about the way they look. Sexual attraction is very important. If you don't have that, then you probably won't need to get to the point to determine if someone is a good catch or not.

While I agree that character and moral qualities, as well as a sense of humor are more important than anyones looks, I have only dated men I have been physically attracted to. If I wasn't attracted to my dh in the first place, I wouldn't have continued in the relationship with him.

And beauty is in the eyes of the beholder...
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Old 07-13-2009, 07:59 PM
 
Location: Democratic Peoples Republic of Redneckistan
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So, you don't turn your other cheek? Neither do I. I also believe in treating people the same way they treat me. This brings up a tired example - I'm not gonna smile sweetly at a rude waiter just because that happens to be cpg's #1 rule of dating!

I respect that!
I was taught to show respect to EVERYONE first and return it double....but I was also taught to have a zero tolerance policy for being disrespected regardless of the "disrespector's(?)" station in life.
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Old 07-13-2009, 10:07 PM
 
Location: OKC
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Let me think about that for a second.....Ummm....no....and are you trying to insult me???
No ma'am. Don't even know you. Just pointing out an interesting 'fact' and alienating myself from all the hot smart women out there!
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Old 07-14-2009, 03:55 AM
 
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I have a very strict rule, "when I have no job pretend like I have no credit card"

The only thing I was doing was paying the monthly bill not charging anything. The card was put away in a box until I found a job
OK, Sure. You'll not use your credit card for $50 in groceries even though you were working, just hadn't gotten a paycheck yet. Could you be any more unbelieveable?
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Old 07-14-2009, 09:17 AM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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No ma'am. Don't even know you. Just pointing out an interesting 'fact' and alienating myself from all the hot smart women out there!
LOL.....ok ok, I was jk. I consider myself to be both...and I love being around smart men. Funny thing is, actually I find it rather maddening that because I am hot (not my words, theirs), all a lot of them want to do is have sex. No one gives a crap whether or not there is substance when all they want to do is get laid. The majority don't know and don't want to know anything about me as a person.
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Old 07-14-2009, 09:38 AM
 
Location: OKC
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LOL.....ok ok, I was jk. I consider myself to be both...and I love being around smart men. Funny thing is, actually I find it rather maddening that because I am hot (not my words, theirs), all a lot of them want to do is have sex. No one gives a crap whether or not there is substance when all they want to do is get laid. The majority don't know and don't want to know anything about me as a person.
Which is why I don't mind alienating myself. I just look for the hot ones with no substance that way after the sex I don't have to worry about the 'wanting to talk afterwards' situations.
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Old 07-14-2009, 10:18 AM
 
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I tell you what, men who date only 'hot gals' get what they deserve, just like gals who seek only 6 pack ab guys with mega salaries...

Of course a person should be attracted to someone physically but if you date only 10s then maybe you are missing out on someone 'not as hot' but perhaps compatible to you.

I was never a girl who used a guy for meals, dates but knew plenty who would (my former best friend led someone on for years because he thought she liked him.) Meanwhile behind his back he was 'fat, ugly, stupid...'

She was not hot (still wonder why men go for bad bleach jobs?). Men are so easily led, unless they actually think for themselves. I admire men who can date 'normal' looking women, different looking women (not just 'stick insects), and think they will have more interesting and better dating experiences.
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Old 07-14-2009, 11:12 AM
 
Location: OKC
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I tell you what, men who date only 'hot gals' get what they deserve, just like gals who seek only 6 pack ab guys with mega salaries...

Of course a person should be attracted to someone physically but if you date only 10s then maybe you are missing out on someone 'not as hot' but perhaps compatible to you.

I was never a girl who used a guy for meals, dates but knew plenty who would (my former best friend led someone on for years because he thought she liked him.) Meanwhile behind his back he was 'fat, ugly, stupid...'

She was not hot (still wonder why men go for bad bleach jobs?). Men are so easily led, unless they actually think for themselves. I admire men who can date 'normal' looking women, different looking women (not just 'stick insects), and think they will have more interesting and better dating experiences.
I never said I needed a 10. Two 5's would work fine, although I'd prefer a 7 and 3.
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