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I don't think having various women you've also met on the internet dating site call your home while your fiancee is visiting (whom you've also met on the internet) is conducive to preparation for marriage and committment...
Well, you didn't say that in the OP, did you? It's perfectly fine for men to have female friends. But chicks you meet through internet DATING sites aren't friends. Dump his a**. He's using you.
My fiancee broke up with me because I threatened to call one of his female callers back and inform her that he has a fiancee. He tells me it's no big deal because he's alread given me a ring. I just get so sick and tired of his calls from ladies while I'm visiting his home. He's says I'm overreacting.
What your thoughts?
I don't think you are wrong in your feeling. When my wife and I got engaged there was no one closer to me than her in a million miles. Sounds like the guy is a player. Seek a decent man and say good bye to this looser.
You weren't overreacting, IMHO. He doesn't seem like he was quite ready for marriage, anyway, so be glad you broke up NOW instead of getting married and having to deal with his bull crap once the two of you were legally wed in holy matrimony.
Sell that ring and date a man instead of a little boy with "friends"
Seriously....
Does not want them to know about you...
I also suggest calling them all and telling them that is the way it is. And giving them all the other girls numbers as well...
I would normally agree with that. . but I know how some women go spastic and psycho on men. . and push. . and push. . and push them. This does not sound like a "new" jealousy issue. I'd love to hear his side of it.
This sounds like the typical situation when people are doing internet dating. Some people really cannot give up the "rush" or whatever you want to call it of having multiple people interested in them at one time.
If someone isn't ready to say goodbye to "friends" they met on internet dating sites when they have put a ring on someone elses finger, then that person is not ready to get married, period! JMHO
My fiancee broke up with me because I threatened to call one of his female callers back and inform her that he has a fiancee. He tells me it's no big deal because he's alread given me a ring. I just get so sick and tired of his calls from ladies while I'm visiting his home. He's says I'm overreacting.
What your thoughts?
Sounds pretty fishy to me. It's one thing to have women friends that you hang out with together, but if he has women calling him and won't tell them about you or that he's ENGAGED to be married, that sounds like a huge red flag.
I don't think having various women you've also met on the internet dating site call your home while your fiancee is visiting (whom you've also met on the internet) is conducive to preparation for marriage and committment...
Oops. I missed THIS part before, but I still hold on the trust issue. If you just cannot trust a man, do not be with him. If he did not want you to blurt to these women and inform them that he is engaged - it could also be that your approach in the state of mind you were in at the time could play into why he did not let you. Face it, no one wants to feel humiliated. Not sure what site you met him on (or the other women) but if its a site like POF where there is a message board forum (like this one) maybe they are just chat friends and nothing more. I have male friends on here and if I were in your situation where I was engaged and a man calls (who is just a friend), I would feel a bit embarrassed if my fiance wanted to blurt in a jealous tiff that I was engaged. It would just be kind of embarrassing. NOW if he would not say something like, "Hey, I will give you a call later, my Fiance is here now," stating your position in his life and presence, then I would say you have an issue. But you are stating it from the point that you wanted to grab the phone and "pee on the tree," per se.
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