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Old 12-11-2009, 09:24 PM
 
Location: Western Washington
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Doesn't that defeat the purpose of being married?
FYI......the biggest reason....from years of hearing from women from every walk of life, that they lose interest in sex? .....wait for it.........is that so many men are selfish in the sack. They're too tired for foreplay.....and/or simply don't care to be bothered with it. They're quick on the trigger, don't bother to ever find out what their partners like/what pleases them the most...and when they're done....they're done. Sex is over for them, once they've climaxed. Meanwhile, their partner lays there frustrated and unfulfilled. Their partners are too spent and selfish to see to it that their needs are met.....all after 2 min (max) of real bliss!!?? Oh please, what woman wants a repeat performance of that crap the next day. Yeah, so I said it.....Why don't soooo many wives run and get naked when their guys shake their thing and say, "Hey baby...want some of this?"... cuz they're too busy shuddering, knowing just how disappointing that encounter is going to be. These married women are honoring their marriage vows....for better for worse, for richer and poorer, etc... but when sex becomes a repulsive, dreaded task that only one person enjoys...don't expect 'em to come running for disappointment.
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Old 12-11-2009, 09:33 PM
 
Location: DFW
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Doesn't that defeat the purpose of being married?
Long thread so I may have missed it. Are you married or just giving us worldly advice as a single guy and the way things ought to be ?
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Old 12-11-2009, 10:10 PM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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Long thread so I may have missed it. Are you married or just giving us worldly advice as a single guy and the way things ought to be ?
I'm dealing in speculative, hypothetical situations for the simple intellectual exercise of it.
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Old 12-11-2009, 10:18 PM
 
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FYI......the biggest reason....from years of hearing from women from every walk of life, that they lose interest in sex? .....wait for it.........is that so many men are selfish in the sack. They're too tired for foreplay.....and/or simply don't care to be bothered with it. They're quick on the trigger, don't bother to ever find out what their partners like/what pleases them the most...and when they're done....they're done. Sex is over for them, once they've climaxed.
That's all great to hear, but why are you assuming this applies in every situation? You've heard from lots of women from every walk of life. Have you heard from lots of men whose wives have lost interest in sex? There are thousands of sides to every story.


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Meanwhile, their partner lays there frustrated and unfulfilled. Their partners are too spent and selfish to see to it that their needs are met.....all after 2 min (max) of real bliss!!?? Oh please, what woman wants a repeat performance of that crap the next day. Yeah, so I said it.....Why don't soooo many wives run and get naked when their guys shake their thing and say, "Hey baby...want some of this?"... cuz they're too busy shuddering, knowing just how disappointing that encounter is going to be. These married women are honoring their marriage vows....for better for worse, for richer and poorer, etc... but when sex becomes a repulsive, dreaded task that only one person enjoys...don't expect 'em to come running for disappointment.
You can do this all you want. Men are just as pissed off with their wives as women are with their husbands. Why are men always blamed for everything? Those women should work on their marriages (as should the men) and try to improve their sex lives........instead of complaining about it.
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Old 12-11-2009, 10:33 PM
 
Location: Miami
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That's all great to hear, but why are you assuming this applies in every situation? You've heard from lots of women from every walk of life. Have you heard from lots of men whose wives have lost interest in sex? There are thousands of sides to every story.




You can do this all you want. Men are just as pissed off with their wives as women are with their husbands. Why are men always blamed for everything? Those women should work on their marriages (as should the men) and try to improve their sex lives........instead of complaining about it.
You know what?
It just doesn't freakin' work. That's why people get a divorce.
They deny it's a failure, then they eventually wise up.
Millions of reasons.
It doesn't freakin' work.
Failure. Mistake.
It is what it is.
Sometimes it's not worth it to know the exact reasons.
Just get out of it and BE FREE.
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Old 12-11-2009, 10:56 PM
 
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You know what?
It just doesn't freakin' work. That's why people get a divorce.
They deny it's a failure, then they eventually wise up.
Millions of reasons.
It doesn't freakin' work.
Failure. Mistake.
It is what it is.
Sometimes it's not worth it to know the exact reasons.
Just get out of it and BE FREE.
When children are involved, it is not that simple.

And if you are male, the process of getting out and being free is to your detriment.
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Old 12-12-2009, 09:07 AM
 
Location: Western Washington
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That's all great to hear, but why are you assuming this applies in every situation? You've heard from lots of women from every walk of life. Have you heard from lots of men whose wives have lost interest in sex? There are thousands of sides to every story.

LOL...YEP!! As a matter of fact, I have. You see, I'm not out there to point fingers, although that's what it might appear I'm doing. Unlike some folks who'd like to only find fault and shove blame somewhere else, I want to HELP people have productive and healthy relationships. I LOVE men, I have a husband and 3 sons!! The trouble is, when you send SOME people possible suggestions and solutions to their problems, they simply freak out and refuse to believe that there's anything wrong with the way they're doing thing......PRIDE and EGO stands in the way. Therefore, they never bother to explore ways of fixing the problem..and expect their mates to "just deal with it...it IS what it IS..."there's NOTHING wrong with the way I'm doing things"


You can do this all you want. Men are just as pissed off with their wives as women are with their husbands. Why are men always blamed for everything? Those women should work on their marriages (as should the men) and try to improve their sex lives........instead of complaining about it.
Oh, I agree that "some" women should get work on "their marriages". In fact, more women should talk to their men about why they're so dissatisfied about certain aspects of their "marital relations" etc. Unfortunately, a whole lot of men out their can NOT handle hearing that they're doing something wrong...and react like little kids when subjects are broached. FINE THEN! OH SO I'M JUST A LOSER!!!!! A lot of women DO try to broach the subject, but are fearful of bruising their mates fragile ego and ending up in a horribly heated confrontational interaction!! Also, for years....women have been brainwashed into thinking that finding fault in the bedroom..leads to a lack of confidence....hence....erectile dysfunction!! Catch 22.....damned if ya do, damned if ya don't.
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Old 12-12-2009, 10:07 AM
 
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Oh, I agree that "some" women should get work on "their marriages". In fact, more women should talk to their men about why they're so dissatisfied about certain aspects of their "marital relations" etc. Unfortunately, a whole lot of men out their can NOT handle hearing that they're doing something wrong...and react like little kids when subjects are broached. FINE THEN! OH SO I'M JUST A LOSER!!!!! A lot of women DO try to broach the subject, but are fearful of bruising their mates fragile ego and ending up in a horribly heated confrontational interaction!! Also, for years....women have been brainwashed into thinking that finding fault in the bedroom..leads to a lack of confidence....hence....erectile dysfunction!! Catch 22.....damned if ya do, damned if ya don't.
I love it. The man is still the culprit. His ego is fragile. His pudendal nerves don't fire correctly. He's just an oppressive, inconsiderate brute.

Spare me.
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Old 12-12-2009, 10:36 AM
 
Location: Western Washington
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I love it. The man is still the culprit. His ego is fragile. His pudendal nerves don't fire correctly. He's just an oppressive, inconsiderate brute.

Spare me.

LOL....... I rest my case!!
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Old 12-12-2009, 10:40 AM
 
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LOL....... I rest my case!!
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