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Old 07-22-2009, 09:04 PM
 
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It worked on you didn't it, Liz? Interesting enough to warrent a response, nah?

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Also, devote a short paragragh to your moral beliefs. Women eat that crap up hand over hand and it makes you genuine.

"I'm not too sure about Jesus but it's hard for me to believe a good heart doesn't go to heaven."

You're in, nuff said.
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Old 07-22-2009, 09:10 PM
 
Location: lala land
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It worked on you didn't it, Liz? Interesting enough to warrent a response, nah?

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Also, devote a short paragragh to your moral beliefs. Women eat that crap up hand over hand and it makes you genuine.

"I'm not too sure about Jesus but it's hard for me to believe a good heart doesn't go to heaven."

You're in, nuff said.
LMAO! Hans you woman slayer you! You are a smooth talker I can tell. You should write a book.
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Old 07-22-2009, 09:12 PM
 
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If I can find a permanent Stress Relief Buddy I wouldn't be on the waterfront either-lol

I hate this dating sh*T

Yeah....THAT comes through loud and clear. That's part of the problem. Maybe you should just give it a rest.
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Old 07-22-2009, 09:13 PM
 
Location: Houston
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It worked on you didn't it, Liz? Interesting enough to warrent a response, nah?

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Also, devote a short paragragh to your moral beliefs. Women eat that crap up hand over hand and it makes you genuine.

"I'm not too sure about Jesus but it's hard for me to believe a good heart doesn't go to heaven."

You're in, nuff said.
Well, I was all set to fall in love with you myself, Hans...and now you went and spoiled it...
TV&SG- don't manipulate (if you are looking for a relationship to last longer than two dates). Just lighten up and be yourself.
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Old 07-23-2009, 07:53 AM
 
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Correct me if Im wrong, but isnt the whole online dating website thing geared for people to weed out others they feel they dont connect with based on their responses? Wouldnt that imply that there are no right or wrong answers just the right or wrong person on the other end of the keyboard. Isnt that the point?
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Old 07-23-2009, 08:04 AM
 
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"I LIKE GOING TO WATERFRONT ESPECIALLY AT NIGHT AND TAKING A WALK ALONG THE WATER. i LIKE GOING TO SIDEWALK CAFE'S, BOOKSTORES, AND SIDEWALK RESTARUNTS. I LIKE TO DISCOVER NEW AREAS OF THE CITY AND SAMPLE FOODS I HAVEN'T EATEN BEFORE"
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Tell why the response was lame.

You make it sound like you're wandering around by yourself, implying you don't have any friends, implying you have social problems.

You can't spell. Your grammar and capitalization is bizarre and unsettling, like a serial killer who writes his letters with words cut out of a magazine.
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Old 07-23-2009, 08:05 AM
 
Location: The #1 sunshine state, Arizona.
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It wasn't in all caps in the email. I see I misspelled foods too in the email, it was spelled Fods-lol


I hate emailing at home which was evident from my rushing and not aware I spelled a couple of words wrong.
Are you still living at home? Did you find work? Some women don't want to spend time with an unemployed guy who lives at home.

On the other hand, she might have met someone. See if she still has an ad posted on the dating website.
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Old 07-23-2009, 09:12 AM
 
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"WHAT DO YO LIKE TO DO?"

Years ago I thought that they really wanted to know what like I like doing and I would say Watch TV, Sports, Go out with friends, and family, or Read.


But I then realized that my answer had to be more related to dating so tonight when I was asked this question I replied with

"I LIKE GOING TO WATERFRONT ESPECIALLY AT NIGHT AND TAKING A WALK ALONG THE WATER. i LIKE GOING TO SIDEWALK CAFE'S, BOOKSTORES, AND SIDEWALK RESTARUNTS. I LIKE TO DISCOVER NEW AREAS OF THE CITY AND SAMPLE FOODS I HAVEN'T EATEN BEFORE"


She never replied back.


So before go and fiill out a application at the nut house can some please tell me what i said wrong or what should I have said differently?
Your answer doesn't have to be related to dating. It just can't sound boring. The reader wants to see if you'd be fun to hang out with and if the two of you have any shared interests. You may enjoy watching TV, but who'd want to hang out with you and just do that? If you like sports, mention specific ones that you like to play. One of the worst things about online dating is that people talk about themselves in such general terms. Put yourself in the reader's place and ask if you'd want to hang out with someone like you based on what you wrote about yourself. This is no different than writing a resume. You have to be specific and not be too modest.
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Old 07-23-2009, 09:15 AM
 
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You have to be specific and not be too modest.
And not creepy.
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Old 07-23-2009, 09:28 AM
 
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"WHAT DO YO LIKE TO DO?"

Years ago I thought that they really wanted to know what like I like doing and I would say Watch TV, Sports, Go out with friends, and family, or Read.


But I then realized that my answer had to be more related to dating so tonight when I was asked this question I replied with

"I LIKE GOING TO WATERFRONT ESPECIALLY AT NIGHT AND TAKING A WALK ALONG THE WATER. i LIKE GOING TO SIDEWALK CAFE'S, BOOKSTORES, AND SIDEWALK RESTARUNTS. I LIKE TO DISCOVER NEW AREAS OF THE CITY AND SAMPLE FOODS I HAVEN'T EATEN BEFORE"


She never replied back.


So before go and fiill out a application at the nut house can some please tell me what i said wrong or what should I have said differently?
Don't sweat it. Move on to the next one. It's probable that she is going on a lot of dates and met a guy she liked and didn't have the common decency to write you back. In fairness though, I've talked to quite a few gals that get nothing but nastiness when they write back and turn someone down so it's easier for them to just go silent and write back nothing.

LOL...I got a date with one gal because when she turned me down I was really cool and polite about it...wished her the best. She was stunned, changed her mind and asked me out for drinks.
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