Should i be offended by this??

[malamute]

Originally Posted by nycricanpapi

It wasn't at my presense but many women say that all the times, so I am tired of hearing the same old news that men are dogs this and that.. Forgive me if I offended you, but I was just replying to this thread, and giving him my opinion. No hard feelings intended.

Imagine if a man said this to his wife in the presence of her single best friend: "thank God I got you, you were the last good woman left,all these single women are worthless"

I bet no one would be defending him.

[miu]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

Good points,i just didnt say anyhting at all to avoid any cofnrontation because its a no win battle but yeah a quick light hearted repsonse would have been best to try to stop her bs

The comment was clearly only directed to her husband (and your best friend), so why on earth would you take this comment personally? And why demean her comment to being only "bs"? What makes it "bs" just because she doesn't consider you one of the "good ones"? She is totally in love with your best friend and that's what people in love say to each other. Why not be happy for your best friend that his wife loves him so much?

It's not a competition as they are a married couple. And I don't think that you understand how LOVE works. Love doesn't happen automatically between two single attractive people. If your best friend didn't exist, it's not as if she would be in love with you or some other random guy that happened to be single and around. And it doesn't sound like you even like her that much as a person, so why would you care what she thinks of you?

I know that you are lonely and anxious to have a girlfriend, preferably a pretty one. But it's not all about physical looks, it's also important that the two people dating have that personality chemistry going, and also liking to do the same fun things. I'm sure that you aren't ugly, but your insecurities and desperation for a girlfriend are holding you back from getting one. You'd do much better to relax and decide that you don't want a girlfriend and then go about with your life. Right now, you're just too easy and hungry for female attention, and it shows. If you act more that they aren't good enough for you, and that you are holding out for that special girl, you will have a much better chance of getting female attention. Women love a challenge. Give them a chance to approach you. And for pete's sake, don't go having a relationship with the first pretty girl that shows interest in you. Please be picky about who you date.

[JBT1980]

Originally Posted by miu

Women love a challenge. Give them a chance to approach you. And for pete's sake, date.

These are the only two points you maden issue with..The whole "challenge" thing to me reeks of childish games i dont need that,im 29 i dont want a challenge theres enough challenges in life in general why make showing somebody you have interest in a challenge??

I understand not to show great desperation im just turned off by the games and women needing a "challenge" Enough of the games!!

As far as letting women aprpaoch you ive tried that for 29 years and it hasnt gotten me far except with a few girls including this latest one..Women rarely approach a Man unless hes extremely good looking and even then he still has to do the majority of the chasing its just the way it is unfortunately..

[nycricanpapi]

Originally Posted by malamute

Imagine if a man said this to his wife in the presence of her single best friend: "thank God I got you, you were the last good woman left,all these single women are worthless"

I bet no one would be defending him.

I would, I am fair with everyone. I would say that not all women are the same