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Unread 07-28-2009, 01:10 AM
 
Location: Philippines
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Default Casual Sex

How do you view sex with your friends? Sex with no strings attached?
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Unread 07-28-2009, 03:42 AM
 
Location: San Diego
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i cannot do it. my emotions get tied in.
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Unread 07-28-2009, 05:21 AM
 
Location: USA
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How do you view sex with your friends? Sex with no strings attached?
Never, and never.
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Unread 07-28-2009, 05:27 AM
 
Location: Texas
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My friends are my friends bc I have absolutely no sexual interest in them. I hold anyone I do find attractive at an arm's length (since I'm married). No reason to go there. Not that it happens all that often...I'm really, really picky.
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Unread 07-28-2009, 05:39 AM
 
Location: Sprackramento metro
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I learned once, (which was all it took)... that sex with a friend is a pretty good way to ruin a friendship
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Unread 07-28-2009, 05:42 AM
 
Location: St. Louis
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I tried it a couple of times after my husband left me, but have sworn off of it for good. Had a man have a temper tantrum the other day b/c I refused to put out, but I sure am glad I didn't. Casual sex, even with friends, is less fun than my vibrator, and a lot more dangerous, so I'll wait for the right man to come along. Besides, the whole FWB thing isn't about friends anyway, it's just casual sex and if it stops, so will the friendship.
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Unread 07-28-2009, 06:12 AM
 
Location: Pawnee Nation
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depends on the friend.............like any other sex partner
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Unread 07-28-2009, 06:35 AM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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It seems like a good idea, but in the end, emotions come into play and you end up alone with one less friend.
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Unread 07-28-2009, 07:04 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE'
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How do you view sex with your friends? Sex with no strings attached?
Sex with no strings attached is a no-go for me. I've tried it on several occasions, and once feelings start to surface, the relationship tends to sour.
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Unread 07-28-2009, 08:40 AM
 
Location: Bon Temps
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Never even gone there myself...

I do not think it would be a good idea, I would need a real relationship. I don't really pal around with guys, so it has never been an issue. Only time I hang around them is if I am dating/married to, or it is a relative.
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