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Old 07-31-2009, 08:23 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Guess I'll look forward to part 2 as the definition can be quite elastic. Only stopping by to annoy Ronny for now!
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Old 07-31-2009, 08:40 PM
 
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Fellas: Do you seek a mate that is "financially Secure"?
Secure? How many people are really secure? This sounds like marrying someone for their money.

Financially balanced is the best one can ask for. Sort of similar to mentally balanced, as someone already noted.
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Old 07-31-2009, 08:42 PM
 
Location: Bronx, NY
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I just want a female that is goal-oriented. If she is not financially secured is ok. I just look for a female that is getting there or have goals
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Old 07-31-2009, 09:22 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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The money department isn't a problem for me. I'd just want a soulmate for the "love", nothing more.

My Dad's accrued enough wealth that it's just two sons, where even if shared, it's gonna last about two generations. I also have a heavy paycheck which has taken away the need to use that reserve money.

My only problem right now is that I'm a spendthrift like my mom. My friends call me a money shredder. So I really hope my future wife can put a check on my spending. So, I'd need a money manager besides a husband manager
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Old 07-31-2009, 09:40 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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The money department isn't a problem for me. I'd just want a soulmate for the "love", nothing more.

My Dad's accrued enough wealth that it's just two sons, where even if shared, it's gonna last about two generations. I also have a heavy paycheck which has taken away the need to use that reserve money.

My only problem right now is that I'm a spendthrift like my mom. My friends call me a money shredder. So I really hope my future wife can put a check on my spending. So, I'd need a money manager besides a husband manager
C'mon now... If it can last for 2 generations, your wife probably can't do much more than 1-generation worth of damage... Screw the grandkids! Let them fend for themselves!
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Old 07-31-2009, 09:43 PM
 
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the money department isn't a problem for me. I'd just want a soulmate for the "love", nothing more.

My dad's accrued enough wealth that it's just two sons, where even if shared, it's gonna last about two generations. I also have a heavy paycheck which has taken away the need to use that reserve money.

My only problem right now is that i'm a spendthrift like my mom. My friends call me a money shredder. So i really hope my future wife can put a check on my spending. So, i'd need a money manager besides a husband manager :d

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Old 07-31-2009, 09:45 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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C'mon now... If it can last for 2 generations, your wife probably can't do much more than 1-generation worth of damage... Screw the grandkids! Let them fend for themselves!
Sssshhhhhh, I'm desperately trying to woo temptation to marry me LMAO

She logs in late in the night. So please keep quoting me and bumping this thread, peeps. Pleaaaaaaaaaaase lol.
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Old 07-31-2009, 09:50 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Sssshhhhhh, I'm desperately trying to woo temptation to marry me LMAO
What does she plan to tempt ya with? Or you're sufficiently tempted already?
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Old 07-31-2009, 10:22 PM
 
Location: CasaMo
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I once dated someone who was not financially secure, and it was never one of his goals to be so. An only child, whose parents were very, very financially secure. He knew, if he outlived them, he'd be secure for life.
He'd be secure for life if he understands how to manage money... And to never have a goal and just have the thought that mommy and daddy have it all taken care of?? I'll go out on a limb and say this guy doesn't know the first thing about responsibility.


I'm a man and I'd steer clear of a woman in that position. I'll take a woman that understands and accepts responsibility and the concept of earning and achieving security than a girl that daddy still takes care of forever.
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Old 07-31-2009, 10:28 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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What does she plan to tempt ya with? Or you're sufficiently tempted already?
Yep, sufficiently

She's nice. She works out. She bikes. She is very active late in the night (I'm dreaming right now). She's hardly seen during the day (can be a blessing??). Above all, she tempts She also comes in with a 001 binary state. Hopefully she can be turned on and off
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