flirting or cheating? (boyfriend, married, woman, husband)

[Miss Blue]

Originally Posted by mainebrokerman

dont give me no lines..... and keep your hands to yourself....................

My next question, class, is......is Brokerman a flirt?

[mainebrokerman]

Originally Posted by blue62

My next question, class, is......is Brokerman a flirt?

hey now miss blue, i was quoting a song (georgia satellite)

[Miss Blue]

Originally Posted by mainebrokerman

hey now miss blue, i was quoting a song (georgia satellite)

Here's one mamma used to sing "Ma, he's makin eyes at me"

[Cosmic]

Originally Posted by christina0001

If it would make your significant other uncomfortable, then it's cheating, IMO.

Ah, boy what is with these people????? Come on.

If he butters his toast wrong and that makes her uncomfortable; guess we have a new type of cheating. Like as in Wowzer.

Para1 (remember this one, you hear )

She keeps turning her back while undressing and he is uncomfortable, hey babe, I just want to see you. H,mmm he is feeling "Cheated" but that type of "Cheated" is not the PC type of "Cheating". Just how weird can this type of thinking get? H,mmmm using their type logic, where I get to define the offense by my definitions, can I get them both to be cheating because the other is cheating, but if one stops cheating, will the other also be not cheating, just by "Definition" mind you.

Bout like saying a snake is eating itself if it starts to swallow its own tail. But if it starts to barf its own tail, then by definition it is no longer eating itself. Follow the logic here. The head of the snake did all the action, but the tail was also criminal by the action. When the head of the snake quit, the tail was automatically innocent again. So we can recycle the event to Para1 and then make both of them innocent by her quit turning her back, him quit looking, or both of them just getting into bed with their clothes on.

Sweet Jesus, if you allow these nutcases to really get loose the divorce rate has to be 100% in a few years.

Duh, Cheating by definition is when one SO gets laid by somebody else, human or non-human, (Aliens count in this definition) that is not part of the SO pair. H,mmmm I so do wonder when that basic definition got changed. Did Bill Clinton have anything to do with it? Any other definition is going to generate a ton of heart burn for lots of SO's.

Could it all be a plot by them lawyers to generate a full employment situation.

[Cosmic]

Originally Posted by blue62

Is there a difference, in your opinion, between flirting and cheating? I think most flirts just have a good personality and mean no harm by it. A cheater has a unique way of "flirting" , he/she starts getting personal I think he is trying to see how far you are willing to go .

H,mmm can I take the basic premise here and turn it into a way to basically do a complete copulation with myself? Please keep in mind this exercise will only involve words and nobody should (I hope, including me) get harmed in the pursue of pure knowledge.

Say, I am looking in a mirror and split my image in two as normal. I am now two separate people in both time and space. Therefore I am able to flirt with myself.

Me: Hi, Handsome

Mirror: Are you talking to me?

Me: Yes, you are the most beautiful thing I have seen in weeks, do you come here often?

Mirror: Well we do seem to be in the same room each morning.

Me: I know and I have been noticing you more. You are lovely and have such nice eyes.

Mirror: Thank you, you always touch my face so gentle.

Me: I would like to touch even more of you

Mirror: We can't do that

Me: I will touch and you feel, see if it is good.

Mirror: I will be scared

Me: No trust me, I can be gentle all over

Mirror: I bet you tell every guy that

Me: I used too, until I saw you

Mirror: Do you love me

Me: More than all the stars in the sky

Mirror: Will you still respect me tonight

Me: Yes, Yes, will you go all the way

Mirror: I have never done that

Me: It will be alright, I love only you

Mirror: Well, Ok, just a little, you must take my shirt off.

Me: Ok, I will now take us to bed.

Mirror: Please remember it is my first time.

I walk away and my two selves rejoin. I have clearly flirted with myself, the big question is have I also cheated on myself???? Standard common sense says no, I must have sex with myself to actually complete the act of cheating. So in order to get the glee so often expressed in these forums, must I also continue and find a way to go F*** myself?

Wow, can this sets of logic and requirements just get out of hand or what!!!!

You know somehow, I just did not enjoy the cheating experience the way I thought I would, tho I think I did meet all the requirements, maybe it was just a dream but I've heard that is now also within the definition of the PC New Left.

Boy, why do they keep going to this approach when it can never make any sense. Or could it be they also suspect their SO is also having an affair in that mirror and then sneaking to bed alone.

[Cosmic]

Just in case anybody doubts the above scenario, I offer this proof that the event was totally possible. Could this escalate into peeps hiring themselves out to themselves and therefore being subject to arrest for being in a form of sex trade???

Be careful in stretching any form of logic. It can quickly get out of bounds.


They are just getting started, he asked are you talking to me??

[Mrs.Bewitched]

I think it depends on the flirting.

There's the flirting because you want it to lead to the cheating, so then the flirting is forplay actually.

Then there's the flirting that is just an actual tone of voice, and a sweeter smile. Usually done to get what you want (pull on the sweetness act) or just to play around, and then it's not done all the time nor with hte same person.

I am a little bit of a flirt

I flirt with men and women But, I don't bat my eyelashes, and the flirting is not of the sexual nature....no sexual words or phrases....I just take a sweeter tone with everyone when I'm playful.

[mainebrokerman]

Originally Posted by mrshvo

I think it depends on the flirting.

There's the flirting because you want it to lead to the cheating, so then the flirting is forplay actually.

Then there's the flirting that is just an actual tone of voice, and a sweeter smile. Usually done to get what you want (pull on the sweetness act) or just to play around, and then it's not done all the time nor with hte same person.

I am a little bit of a flirt

I flirt with men and women But, I don't bat my eyelashes, and the flirting is not of the sexual nature....no sexual words or phrases....I just take a sweeter tone with everyone when I'm playful.

mrshvo, you gave me a chuckle in your last paragraph, flirting NOT of the sexual nature "
i totally understand what you mean, the "intent" of your flirting, totally harmless no sexual overtures, but,,what if its misperceived? what if the interpretation, is different than intent?? what if a guy WANTS it to be beyond playful flirting??then its the guy "fault" for misinterpreting??

welcome to the mans world of sexual harrassment..

[ducksburg]

it largely depends on the purpose

cheaters do cheat on purpose,often trying to take advantage of others.

[elfyum]

Well sorry cosmic - seems like EVERYONE disagrees with you! So let's see, does that make you "wrong"? No, but how about if everyone agrees with you? Does that make you "right"? NO!