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04-24-2007, 01:32 PM
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flirting or cheating?
Is there a difference, in your opinion, between flirting and cheating? I think most flirts just have a good personality and mean no harm by it. A cheater has a unique way of "flirting" , he/she starts getting personal I think he is trying to see how far you are willing to go .
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04-24-2007, 01:39 PM
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If you have to ask yourself, "Is what I'm doing considered cheating?" then you are cheating! To me, the issue isn't how far can I push things before crossing some border, but an issue of who you live to please. Are you trying to please yourself or your spouse/significant other. Would I want to put myself in a situation that makes me question my fidelity? No.
I have to say that if I'm at work and I see Person A, who isn't single, flirting with person B, and then Person A's spouse comes to a get together, I feel sorry for the poor fool the entire time. And usually Person B feels very awkward. Why would you want to make your significant other look like an idiot?
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04-24-2007, 03:20 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by blue62
Is there a difference, in your opinion, between flirting and cheating? I think most flirts just have a good personality and mean no harm by it. A cheater has a unique way of "flirting" , he/she starts getting personal I think he is trying to see how far you are willing to go .
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OK, How far are you willing to go ??? |
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04-24-2007, 03:45 PM
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Flirting - the spice of life!
Cheating - the vice of living!
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04-24-2007, 04:19 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by junkman18
OK, How far are you willing to go ???
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Uh..er ..ahem.. (Blue blushes and whispers to junkman) They're watchin' us  |
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04-24-2007, 05:37 PM
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If it would make your significant other uncomfortable, then it's cheating, IMO.
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04-24-2007, 08:19 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by blue62
Is there a difference, in your opinion, between flirting and cheating? I think most flirts just have a good personality and mean no harm by it. A cheater has a unique way of "flirting" , he/she starts getting personal I think he is trying to see how far you are willing to go .
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alot of fine lines here, particularly if the flirtee is a blt transgender |
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04-24-2007, 08:24 PM
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Pretty funny, considering! 
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Originally Posted by mainebrokerman
alot of fine lines here, particularly if the flirtee is a blt transgender
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04-24-2007, 08:28 PM
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Originally Posted by mainebrokerman
alot of fine lines here, particularly if the flirtee is a blt transgender
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In that case, couldn't you technically just flirt with yourself and avoid the hassle? |
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04-24-2007, 08:41 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Lauri_25ny
In that case, couldn't you technically just flirt with yourself and avoid the hassle?
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dont give me no lines..... and keep your hands to yourself.................... |
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