Woman and pregnancy (wife, how to, married, women)

[Ran9]

As a man do you dread the thought of your woman potentially looking drastically different from the time you first meet her when she gives birth to a child? Even if she works out daily after giving birth, the woman who you thought had a nice figure will turn out to be basically either overweight or obese for the rest of there lives.

This is why I think men cheat and divorce rates are so high. Most men I think do not know how to choose there woman and just look at everything at first sight. You should look at a woman's current body type, and just analyze to see if there is a possibility if she will explode after giving birth. Even though most woman will gain a whole lot of weight there are exceptions out there and I have seen woman who basically kept there same figure after birth. Those woman from a shallow point of view are prizes, because those types are often so hard to find.

[moonshadow]

...oh never mind.

I need popcorn in here STAT!!!

[findinghope]

wow--you are a real prize.....
i think most men who love their wife and are elated to have a child with her, would be patient enough for her to get her figure back of she can....if not, you would think he would love her anyway

[Braunwyn]

Nice troll thread. Ran9, in case you're reading, it would probably be a boon for you to let the women you meet know of your requirements. Really, in detail. Honesty is the best policy.

[ShayLove]

Stretch marks & all hubby still loves me! I guess you fail to realize that she did bring a special someone into your lives... So feeling un-attracted to her after that "ordeal" is really selfish. And according to why "MOST" people gt divorced is ................. (drum role please) ........................ MONEY!

[HansProof]

That's why you have to look at her mother to see what the future holds. If her mother is kind of milfy, you're good to go

[Ivorytickler]

Originally Posted by Ran9

As a man do you dread the thought of your woman potentially looking drastically different from the time you first meet her when she gives birth to a child? Even if she works out daily after giving birth, the woman who you thought had a nice figure will turn out to be basically either overweight or obese for the rest of there lives.

This is why I think men cheat and divorce rates are so high. Most men I think do not know how to choose there woman and just look at everything at first sight. You should look at a woman's current body type, and just analyze to see if there is a possibility if she will explode after giving birth. Even though most woman will gain a whole lot of weight there are exceptions out there and I have seen woman who basically kept there same figure after birth. Those woman from a shallow point of view are prizes, because those types are often so hard to find.

So, men are so shallow they cheat on their women because after having their child they no longer look like they did when they met?

What a lame excuse.

[Braunwyn]

Originally Posted by Ivorytickler

So, men are so shallow they cheat on their women because after having their child they no longer look like they did when they met?

What a lame excuse.

What's far worse is that they are (hypothetically) breeding.

[moonshadow]

How would you be meeting someone, getting married, going through pregnancy and labor and discovering this was their attitude?

[Ivorytickler]

Originally Posted by Braunwyn

What's far worse is that they are (hypothetically) breeding.

Let's hope the child got her genes.

I hate this excuse. Are we to believe that men at that shallow that what a woman looks like is all that matters? If so, maybe they should just hire good looking hookers instead of getting married. It's dishonest to marry someone when you know as soon as their looks change you'll be looking for greener pastures. Why bother getting married in the first place?