infidelity (cheating, sex, spouses, betray)

[Tasha1133]

can anyone share their views on infidelity?

[Jason28]

Yeah, 60% of the time its wrong every time.

[MaggieZ]

it's wrong 100% of the time-if you're not happy, leave first and then find someone else...it's not the fault of the person who's being being cheated on. If there are problems, sexual or other, that can't be worked out, then break up ...cheating is about way more than having sex with someone outside the relationship anyway.

[Zwick]

It's always wrong.

[Whyte Byrd]

What about it? It's a broken vow. There are many ways to break vows. All have the potential to be devastating.

[Woof Woof Woof!]

Relationships are complex and so are the reasons for infidelity. So if you are looking for the why's, you won't find them in the one sentence responses here. In addition, you'll also find a lot of moral grandstanding. Just remember, we live in a world of hypocrisy.

[stan4]

What kind of infidelity? Sexual? Cuz that's the only one that counts, right?

(Does anyone else think that's strange?)

[PassTheChocolate]

Originally Posted by Woof Woof Woof!

Relationships are complex and so are the reasons for infidelity. So if you are looking for the why's, you won't find them in the one sentence responses here. In addition, you'll also find a lot of moral grandstanding. Just remember, we live in a world of hypocrisy.

Amen. It's so simple for some here. Leave if you're not happy - then villify that person for walking out on a marriage. Two wrongs don't make a right - nobody does it because it is right and not everyone does it to "right" the wrongs inflicted upon them. Nobody deserves to be cheated on - give me a break. Some people absolutely deserve it.

I don't think many will dispute that it is wrong, it is a betrayal, a breaking of your vows, etc. However, when it comes to something that serious, there is no short, simplistic answer from an outsider, let alone a perfect stranger, that can explain away with one sentence the reasons behind every case.

Not everyone who is cheated on is a victim. In many cases, other vows were broken long before the unpardonable sin of cheating took place. Aren't they all important? Isn't it a betrayal when any of them are broken? It goes for both spouses; leave before you break them. Or is fidelity the only vow that counts to where the others can be stomped on at will with no consequence, one of those being infidelity. I am not condoning it, but I do understand it in SOME cases.

[Mr.Cat]

No comments.

[funymann]

Originally Posted by Tasha1133

can anyone share their views on infidelity?

I believe it is a company that manages your money.