Gave this woman my phone number and asked her how late she stays up on Sunday nights, and.... (dating, children)

[FBJ]

She said"i go to sleep around 12am/1am/2am and I said call me around 11pm.

Then she says-"why so late???"


Come someone tell me what the hell she is talking about?

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy

She said"i go to sleep around 12am/1am/2am and I said call me around 11pm.

Then she says-"why so late???"


Come someone tell me what the hell she is talking about?

Sounds like she was just hoping to talk to you sooner

[Huckleberry3911948]

distrust its now the norm.
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[FBJ]

Wonder what female reaction would be if she told me to call at 11pm and I said-"why so late?



Let me guess-"He seems desperate"

[JustTess]

I would probably tell you that is when my house settles down and I can focus more on having a nice conversation.

Then I would wonder if you think I'm dating a lot of men at the same time. IDK.... I wouldn't dwell on it.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy

Wonder what female reaction would be if she told me to call at 11pm and I said-"why so late?



Let me guess-"He seems desperate"

The fact you are making a big deal out of this is just silly

[movin'on]

11 is not a standard time to talk on the phone. I wouldn't read too much into this. Maybe it was just asked out of curiousity? I can see myself doing the same.

[CESpeed]

If a man said he wanted to call me just before I'm going to bed, he is telling me a) talking to me is not important to him; b) he is a control freak/potential abuser and wants to see if he can control me.

[moonshadow]

I don't ring anyone after 8.30pm (at a push) on a weeknight.

If they have children I don't ring after 7pm.

If they're a shift worker I don't ring after any pre-arranged time they nominate.

If they're elderly I don't ring after 7pm.

If it's dinner time, I don't ring.

The only time I'd ring someone after 9pm is if they'd specifically said it was ok to do so OR it was an emergency.

Her saying, "Why so late?" is her way of letting you know she's not really comfortable or unwilling to be on the phone that late at night. As far as I can see it's a non-issue. I'd just arrange another time that is more suitable for both of you.

[FBJ]

Originally Posted by CESpeed

If a man said he wanted to call me just before I'm going to bed, he is telling me a) talking to me is not important to him; b) he is a control freak/potential abuser and wants to see if he can control me.

Really? Forget that I was WORKING on my laptop and doing laundry and had to fix dinner