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Old 08-19-2009, 02:39 PM
 
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Should I be upset about it?
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Old 08-19-2009, 02:42 PM
 
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it depends what her reason is

if she got a job working with machinery and it is for safety reasons, then not a reason for upset

however if the relationship is having problems, then yes it could be cause for upset

first step is to ask her what it means, why she stopped wearing it, and go from there
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Old 08-19-2009, 02:42 PM
 
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Should I be upset about it?
No offense Mr. Cat, but didn't you expect this at this point?
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Old 08-19-2009, 02:44 PM
 
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Well, did you ask her why. Did she just not want to wear it or are her hand swelled.
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Old 08-19-2009, 02:44 PM
 
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I agree with lovesmountains. I thought you guys were already going through something??
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Old 08-19-2009, 02:44 PM
 
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Should I be upset about it?
None of us can tell you what to feel. It's how you feel in this situation that really counts, numero uno.
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Old 08-19-2009, 02:46 PM
 
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When the rings come off even in a rough patch it might show a sign of giving up. Kind of a painful thing the first time you see her without them.
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Old 08-19-2009, 02:46 PM
 
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If she threw it across the room before she stopped wearing it then yes.
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Old 08-19-2009, 02:52 PM
 
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You should be upset only if you think you should be.
I don`t wear mine, but its only because I don`t want it to scratch my patients. Thats the only reason.
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Old 08-19-2009, 02:56 PM
 
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Is it over? Even if it is, you feel what you feel. Nothing wrong with being sad over the ending of a marriage, if that is what it is.
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