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Old 08-23-2009, 09:39 AM
 
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If you don't want drama, avoid women who drink and take drugs. I'm not even talking DUIs or arrests at this point - people, especially women, who drink often have pretty active emotions and will be all over the place in them!

If you want a woman who is centered, neutral and reasonable - look for a woman who doesn't drink or drug. That nips it in the bud right there. (And I am not talking about extremely religious types, either.)
You have a point. Drinking and drugs can lead to emotional garbage. So, any professional woman would certainly due. People with careers probably have less time to party. That's been my experience at least lol.
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Old 08-23-2009, 11:55 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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It revolves around the idea of "romance" - the Cinderella story heard as young girls never leaves their desires, and those desires are reinforced in every media:





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Old 08-23-2009, 11:59 PM
 
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You know what they say, it takes two to tango.
Hardly, but I'll admit that some men are too polite and supportive for their own good. I've made that mistake.

I suppose this is enabling behavior but sometimes its difficult to know when what might be a temporary problem, becomes a permanent condition!
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Old 08-24-2009, 12:01 AM
 
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Okay, you have 3 threads going at the same time. What is with this drama, Ron?


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He's trying to find out why he's still single and not dating.
Hang in there, Ron! In a week or two, you'll be happy with this. Just keep reading.
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Old 08-24-2009, 08:50 AM
 
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I talk to my share of women and they ALWAYS have some drama filled past relationship story( all of which I don't want to hear). Where does all of that sh&t come from?
Obviously, it comes from men.

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Sometimes I really think it's them and not the person they are talking about.

I think some people really enjoy having drama in their relationships?
I have known a few people that live for drama. I do believe women are way more dramatic than men. Women are more expressive of their emotions and tend to talk more about non sexual aspects of relationships than me do.
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Old 08-24-2009, 09:50 AM
 
Location: East Valley, AZ
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I talk to my share of women and they ALWAYS have some drama filled past relationship story( all of which I don't want to hear). Where does all of that sh&t come from?

Sometimes I really think it's them and not the person they are talking about.


I think some people really enjoy having drama in their relationships?
Easy. You attract women who have drama in their lives.

Try someone different for a change, or even a different way of finding them (aka, get off plentyoffish.com)
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Old 08-24-2009, 09:52 AM
 
Location: Orlando, FL
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All of my past relationships have drama because I'm a dramatic person. My world is a soap opera. It's just a matter of getting the right cast in place.
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Old 08-24-2009, 09:53 AM
 
Location: East Valley, AZ
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If you don't want drama, avoid women who drink and take drugs. I'm not even talking DUIs or arrests at this point - people, especially women, who drink often have pretty active emotions and will be all over the place in them!

If you want a woman who is centered, neutral and reasonable - look for a woman who doesn't drink or drug. That nips it in the bud right there. (And I am not talking about extremely religious types, either.)
I think you just explained me in detail.

It's not as nice as it sounds...guys are drawn to girls with drama. Trust me.
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Old 08-24-2009, 10:24 AM
 
Location: Between Philadelphia and Allentown, PA
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Certain types of people attract other certain types of people. Whatever "type" you are is attracting women who have previously had lots of drams in their lives and it's probably not over yet. Maybe deep down you want to hear or maybe not but either way you keep having these types of people being attracted to you.
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Old 08-24-2009, 10:34 AM
 
Location: Kentucky Bluegrass
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Men and women perceive situations differently. Emotions are different therefore reactions are different.

And what do all those women you talk to who ALWAYS have drama have in common?
You.
Women are emotional talkers...men are not...
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