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Old 08-24-2009, 09:04 PM
 
Location: GA
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It works both ways. I always hear from men, I don't like drama but then they have story after story of dealing with someone who brought them nothing but drama. I think people should be honest about drama because if no one likes drama, who's dating all the drama men and drama women?
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Old 08-24-2009, 09:19 PM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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I've never know anyone, male or female, that did not have drama in a past relationship.

Just haven't come across it yet.
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Old 08-24-2009, 09:33 PM
 
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Perhaps you hear it more from women because women tend to be more vocal...but, if there is drama in a relationship it takes two to engage.
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Old 08-24-2009, 09:43 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I talk to my share of women and they ALWAYS have some drama filled past relationship story( all of which I don't want to hear). Where does all of that sh&t come from?

Sometimes I really think it's them and not the person they are talking about.


I think some people really enjoy having drama in their relationships?
Some do...and some just get it unwanting.
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Old 08-25-2009, 09:16 AM
 
Location: Orlando, FL
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I love drama. I live for it. I crave it. I can’t survive without it. We role play a lot.
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Old 08-25-2009, 09:18 AM
 
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Drama. That puts into words why I don't understand why someone would want to be in a romanitc relationship.
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Old 08-25-2009, 03:50 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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There are some who are not drama queens. Date them instead...granted there not as easy to find because they are usually in good jobs and relationships already.
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Old 08-25-2009, 04:44 PM
 
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A life without drama is dull. It is the basis for interesting stories and a stimulating life. Don't men tell funny stories, about the frat party or whatever, full of drama? Yes they do.
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Old 08-25-2009, 05:23 PM
 
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Well I think most adults regardless of gender have had life eperiences, not all of them good i.e. leading to potential drama.
I think there is a percentage of people who also need attention, are some value of self-centered, are a little consumed by their drama. Speaking of women that actually get to act on that over and over tend to be good looking because men don't put up with it as mcuh in average looking women. Not all good looking women have that bit of crazy and there are average and unattractive women who do - either way - I agree with other posters - don't choose the dramatists.
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Old 05-14-2010, 02:09 PM
 
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I should smack you where you stand. EVERYONE has a story and relationships can traumatize people. Relationships take a lot to keep up and nurture and when it goes wrong..and clearly those stories you speak of they went wrong or else theyd still be together...When they went wrong it obviously upset your new partner because after all if you invested years or just months into someone and it blows up in your face..even if it's mutual you would be upset. Who walks away from a 2 year relationship and wave SEE YA LATER NEIGHBOR? NO one! Breakups arent easy. Accusations start, dividing property, returning things, explaining to friends and family what happened.. So for writing this post you deserve to get smacked in the face.
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