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Unless they guy is mr GQ I don't know what an "attractive" man looks like as I am not into guys. I guess I would notice a guy who was a 2 who obviously needed some plastic surgery or a guy who was a 9 or 10 but anything in between im not going to be able to really distinguish so thus I cant get angry at them.
As someone on a similiar thread said,maybe if men didn't put the beautiful ones on a pedestal and ignore the unattractive women,this wouldn't happen.
Also,in my opinion,it isn't just about looks all the time. I'm unattractive,yet some women still get jealous of me because of my job title,how much I make more etc, yet lots of the women who are jealous of me are married,are attractive, so I'm not so sure anymore.
MEN get jealous of women too. Not so sure where you guys are located,but I've had men jealous of me because of my job and my income too,so I'm not sure where this "men don't get jealous thing" comes from. In fact,I may have had more men jealous of me than women.
You sound smart and funny so those haters are jealous...plus these things make you attractive. Far more attractive than an empty headed bimbo.
"Pretty on the outside" is a thing but so is pretty on the inside.
I can see this being a "whatever" in the teens because well..teens are insane. lol
But I notice this a lot in the adult world. I got treated totally differently by women when I was slobbed out and chunky. That was not me and after changing things I feel better. I still act the same. But women are strait up c**** with snide remarks if they think you might look better than they do it seems. Women never admit they do this and it seems only guys agree with me and laugh at the other women go "oh well I never"
What is the "man version" of this? Is there one?
Jealousy, I suppose.
I haven't really seen a man version of this so to speak. The closest thing to a male version that I have seen is when a man tries to take the woman from someone else.
Jealousy, insecurity, competition, etc. Everybody knows how men will be more interested in a girl that is attractive to his eyes rather than a girl's status, income, car she drives, etc. Have a prettier girl arrive at the scene and of course you will see those insecure jealous competitive women raise their furs like cats who are about to fight and start giving each other looks, commenting to her girlfriends how ugly she is or how cheap her shoes look, and so on.
I get a kick out of posts who start out, "Why does everyone hate me because I'm beautiful?" or "I get so tired of everyone always thinking I'm 19, when I'm 52." While they may, in fact, be absolutely true, the odds are, uh, probably not. Or, perhaps it's me, being cynical, not sure.
How I treat a fellow human being is not predicated upon their looks. If a woman is beautiful and STILL treats everyone with compassion, grace and humility, then she truly is deserving of the term, "beautiful." If she goes through life acting like a prima dona and being rude and snotty, well, life is way too short to have to deal with those creatures.
Women are pretty intuitive - and if you're having issues, perhaps you changed when you went from slobbed out and chunky to what you claim today. On the other hand, maybe you're just surrounded by harpies, that happens too.
I think its a terrible trait many women suffer from...I have never understood it when I was on the recieving end of it and still don't now that I am a 50 yr old woman...it's insecurity at such a deep level...it's kinda pathetic...
My mom is very good looking, and fat women are very mean to her and make rude remarks quite often.
It's funny, because good looking people are usually nicer than ugly fat ones but they still complain about "not getting a chance".
Its the product of a hard life, pretty people have a cake life generally unless they are REALLY dumb and create bad situations for themselves. Ugly people have to work MUCH harder to achive happieness and if they keep getting busted down it wears on you, its no excuse to be a nasty bitter person but it does make more sense that someone would sucum to such behavior while having a sucky life.
How bitter and mad can you be when your gorgus and juggling 7 men at a time lol. Of course being bitter and mean does not buy you anything, you have to be smarter than the pretty people that skate by on their looks, they are seldom motivated to be cleaver because they dont need to be (other than keeping the other 6 men from finding out lol).
I think plastic surgery could be the equilizer that ugly people need, then see how smily the attractive women is when you are also attractive and are taking her man, I gaurentee it wont be all smiles anymore lol. Dont be nasty, just get even and then see the pretty persons true colors come out.
A lot of people in this thread have cited jealousy as the reason for this behavior. What about when fit women make fun of fat women? Which is something I recently saw. Is that due to jealousy?
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