Older white men and young asian women (wife, movies, girlfriends)

[John23]

There's another thread about white men and asian women being a perfect match.

This thread is specifically about older white men and young asian women. Older being over 40. And the asian woman being under 40 or 35, with a 10 or 20 year age difference between them.

I have a neighbor up my street who I see out in his yard all the time. Very dedicated and disciplined to cutting the lawn and gardening. He's probably at least 60. And he's always with a young asian lady. Probably no older than 35. I'm assuming wife or gf because she's there everytime he's there. And the way they act towards each other, I dont think its an adopted daughter.

Whats the pyschology behind it? Esp if there's a really big age gap, like 25 years. What would an asian family think? Does it ever get to be weird?

I think it would get weird (regardless of race) if you're much older than her dad. Her dad being 50, and you're 62.

[xavierob82]

He purchased her on the internets.

[calipoppy]

What's the signifigance of their race?

Why not older Eskimo men with younger Kenyan girlfriends? Or older Guatemalan women with younger Chinese men?

[samston]

Originally Posted by John23

There's another thread about white men and asian women being a perfect match.

This thread is specifically about older white men and young asian women. Older being over 40. And the asian woman being under 40 or 35, with a 10 or 20 year age difference between them.

I have a neighbor up my street who I see out in his yard all the time. Very dedicated and disciplined to cutting the lawn and gardening. He's probably at least 60. And he's always with a young asian lady. Probably no older than 35. I'm assuming wife or gf because she's there everytime he's there. And the way they act towards each other, I dont think its an adopted daughter.

Whats the pyschology behind it? Esp if there's a really big age gap, like 25 years. What would an asian family think? Does it ever get to be weird?

I think it would get weird (regardless of race) if you're much older than her dad. Her dad being 50, and you're 62.

do you know them?

if not, leave them be.

[DBCC]

Mind your own business. I have been in an excellent relationship with a lovely lady for almost 2 years with an 18 year age difference. We have the same interests, sports, literature, theater, travel, outdoor activities, and desire to be together. We are of different cultures. So what? Nothing weird in that at all. I am socially accepted in her peer/business/friends group and she in mine. No one frowns on the age difference. Both have a University education, professionals in different areas, culturally developed, independent, mature, and right for each other. Start worrying about environment/ crime/ financial crisis and not of things that do NOT concern you if you can see the couple is leading a normal, happy life.

[fleetiebelle]

Originally Posted by xavierob82

He purchased her on the internets.

That's my first thought, too. Mail order bride.

[Oildog]

I am trying to order one to. They are attractive, keep a nice house and don't talk much. They are also screamers just like in the movies.

[LaoTzuMindFu]

Originally Posted by Oildog

I am trying to order one to. They are attractive, keep a nice house and don't talk much. They are also screamers just like in the movies.

LOL. But their screams seem to always be of the "im in pain" sorts instead of the "yes yes YES!!!" sorts.

[dragonfly0428]

Hmm. My BF was in a relationship like this. Never really thought about the race/culture thing, just the age difference. I'm sure he felt really hot being on the arm of someone 13 years his junior. She was pretty, sweet, independent, born in the US and intelligent. I think a guy her age would feel good with her on his arm.

I never really understood why she went with someone so much older, but apparently they clicked. And they were in love. Maybe your neighbor is too.

[Peggy Anne]

What about an older woman with a younger Asian husband ? You know, if people get along, that's all that matters. Younger people aren't so set in their ways, generally, and they can help keep older ones from getting lazy, and stuck in a rut. The older person can provide $ and some sage wisdom in a positive sense. Many older people still have a need for adventure, and a lot of young people seem burned out, jaded and bitter. Sometimes, people cross paths, and help one another. Might not last forever, but many same age marriages fail, too.