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Old 08-29-2009, 04:23 PM
 
Location: Yakima WA
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I see a lot of women say they won't date short guys becuase they want to wear heels. Well I am a shortish guy who loves to see women wear heels. I constantly think back to how great life was in the 1980s when it seemed most women wore heels. So sexy, Also, I feel no intimidation around tall women. I could be with a amazon woman in the highest of heels and feel not only perfectly comfortable but stimulated.

So I have a question. Since these days women won't wear heels if it makes them taller than the man (this didn't seem to be a problem decades ago but it is now), would any women do it if you would pay them? I have no interest in paying an escort for sex, but (if I broke up with my girlfriend) I would pay to walk in public with a tall woman in heels. I would love all the dirty looks. I just think it would be so fun. Also, do you think there are any tall women at all who would date a shorter guy and wear heels? There always are exceptions to the rule. Not everybody can be the same, can they?

 
Old 08-29-2009, 04:25 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Only if the man has a fetish for being crushed and suffocated.
lol thats mean...and being a chunky gal myself, Yes I did date a guy whom was only 5'5..me 5'2. It was weird because all the guys in my family are at least 6' . He was a great guy and very nice. He was a cute Italian. But when i was in my 20's I was a snot and when he didn't call me back right away I moved on to another guy whom was 6'4. Now I look back and realize how dumb i was in my 20's
 
Old 08-29-2009, 05:24 PM
 
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I very rarely see fat chicks with guys who aren't also fat.
You are so very wrong, unless you explain 'fat chicks.'
Again, many thin/normal men like A VARIETY of women...some are 'chubby chasers' who like very big women. (I'd say over a few hundred pounds)

Others do not care if you are 40 lbs. overweight.

Some like fit girls.

But do not paint all men with a brush of your own 'hatred' of chubby women.(That comes out very much in your posts).

Not every guy who likes 'a bigger girl' is a pervert or loser who can't get 'a hotter chick.'


Now for you short guys reading this and feeling you have to listen to these men who all think because they are 6 feet tall that they know it all...forget it.

I have been overweight my whole life since puberty and I never let that stop me...People who are short, fat, whatever, stop making excuses.

Think of your inner beauty, do the best you can with your outer self...and go for your life.

If people have a problem with my weight (I'm not enormous and I do work out 6 times a week) then it is THEIR problem.

I've always felt if men need an woman 'as a trophy' then let them find one. Of course a person who is short or fat, or whatever has a right to love and romance and chances are THEY WILL find someone...

I believe there is someone for everyone. And it doesn't mean 2 huge people will be destined to find each other and sit around eating chips all day like on Roseanne.
 
Old 08-29-2009, 06:33 PM
 
Location: Bon Temps
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I keep picturing George Costanza!
 
Old 08-29-2009, 07:12 PM
 
Location: Florida
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You are so very wrong, unless you explain 'fat chicks.'
Again, many thin/normal men like A VARIETY of women...some are 'chubby chasers' who like very big women. (I'd say over a few hundred pounds)

Others do not care if you are 40 lbs. overweight.

Some like fit girls.

But do not paint all men with a brush of your own 'hatred' of chubby women.(That comes out very much in your posts).

Not every guy who likes 'a bigger girl' is a pervert or loser who can't get 'a hotter chick.'


Now for you short guys reading this and feeling you have to listen to these men who all think because they are 6 feet tall that they know it all...forget it.

I have been overweight my whole life since puberty and I never let that stop me...People who are short, fat, whatever, stop making excuses.

Think of your inner beauty, do the best you can with your outer self...and go for your life.

If people have a problem with my weight (I'm not enormous and I do work out 6 times a week) then it is THEIR problem.

I've always felt if men need an woman 'as a trophy' then let them find one. Of course a person who is short or fat, or whatever has a right to love and romance and chances are THEY WILL find someone...

I believe there is someone for everyone. And it doesn't mean 2 huge people will be destined to find each other and sit around eating chips all day like on Roseanne.


Dan Connor is sexy to me for some reason. I would date him.
 
Old 08-29-2009, 07:26 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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I keep picturing George Costanza!
In real life George Constanza would not have gotte any HOT women like he did on the show.
 
Old 08-29-2009, 07:27 PM
 
Location: Beautiful Pelham Pkwy (da Bronx)
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Napolean syndrome. (Not all short men, of course, but I have met a few who were very, very forward or downright aggressive.)

Come to think of it, I've been going out quite a bit with one of my guy friends. He is so sweet, funny, creative, and charming that he seems to have no trouble attracting women. He does struggle with some self-esteem issues, but not due to his height. He knows how to treat women. I love being with him. I wonder why so many people put so much value on how people look. I am drawn to how the guy makes me feel, and how he feels when he with me.
 
Old 08-29-2009, 07:33 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Napolean syndrome. (Not all short men, of course, but I have met a few who were very, very forward or downright aggressive.)

Come to think of it, I've been going out quite a bit with one of my guy friends. He is so sweet, funny, creative, and charming that he seems to have no trouble attracting women. He does struggle with some self-esteem issues, but not due to his height. He knows how to treat women. I love being with him. I wonder why so many people put so much value on how people look. I am drawn to how the guy makes me feel, and how he feels when he with me.

Because Looks matter
 
Old 08-29-2009, 07:35 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Originally Posted by GypsySoul22 View Post
You are so very wrong, unless you explain 'fat chicks.'
Again, many thin/normal men like A VARIETY of women...some are 'chubby chasers' who like very big women. (I'd say over a few hundred pounds)

Others do not care if you are 40 lbs. overweight.

Some like fit girls.

But do not paint all men with a brush of your own 'hatred' of chubby women.(That comes out very much in your posts).

Not every guy who likes 'a bigger girl' is a pervert or loser who can't get 'a hotter chick.'


Now for you short guys reading this and feeling you have to listen to these men who all think because they are 6 feet tall that they know it all...forget it.

I have been overweight my whole life since puberty and I never let that stop me...People who are short, fat, whatever, stop making excuses.

Think of your inner beauty, do the best you can with your outer self...and go for your life.

If people have a problem with my weight (I'm not enormous and I do work out 6 times a week) then it is THEIR problem.

I've always felt if men need an woman 'as a trophy' then let them find one. Of course a person who is short or fat, or whatever has a right to love and romance and chances are THEY WILL find someone...

I believe there is someone for everyone. And it doesn't mean 2 huge people will be destined to find each other and sit around eating chips all day like on Roseanne.
I think we need to belly bop! lol and give you a hug!
 
Old 08-29-2009, 07:45 PM
 
Location: NE TN~ TriCities
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My son doesn't seem to lack too much for dates. He is quite short, under 5'6". He's also kind and considerate with a killer sense of humor. Not a mean bone in his body.
Although I guess if in the future he runs into a lot of women who refuse to date him simply because he's short that could change.
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