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I was talking to a friend the other day who has had affairs in his relationship. Now he is in a new relationship and he looked really happy. He said the sex was good. He said that sex is like a salve in a relationship. It bonds a couple together and takes care of a lot of problems. He said he had no interest in other women now.
I think what he said is true. I think overall if a man is having enough good sex with his partner, he is less likely to be unfaithful.
Men need sex. So when they are in a marriage where sex has gone try, chances are good, they are looking elsewhere.
Men, do you agree, disagree? What are your thoughts?
Guys fall in different categories. I would (and have) gone sexless in a marriage if it were for a good reason...and I wouldn't cheat, it's just not in me.
Eventually, as you age and medical issues inevitably occur sex is going to go through dry spells etc. Not so sure I'd want to be married to someone that would start looking outside the marriage if we hit a rough patch.
From my own experience, women are less likely to stray in a relationship if the sex is good. Men (most not all) crave variety so your mileage may vary.
Sorry, but I think the point of Pam's post flew right over your head...
She's saying that by their very nature that men have an URGE to look elsewhere and a tendency to WANT to stray... Her point was that it's ultimately the man's quality of character that overcomes this, not that men are incapable of being faithful..
I disagree.
Once again, what's a woman's excuse when she cheats?
Women cheat as much and more than men in some cases. Therefore, it is also in the very nature of women to cheat.
You have to know what your partner wants and satisy them, man or woman, or else they will stray.
No, I think men (And women) are more likely to stray when they no longer feel they are at the center of their S/O's life.
Heck, you can find good sex anywhere. A loving, understanding partner is a much rarer thing. Once you experience it and then lose it, you'll do just about anything to have it back again.
No, I think men (And women) are more likely to stray when they no longer feel they are at the center of their S/O's life.
Heck, you can find good sex anywhere. A loving, understanding partner is a much rarer thing. Once you experience it and then lose it, you'll do just about anything to have it back again.
I agree.
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