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Old 09-01-2009, 01:28 PM
 
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Wow, I guess because I have been so busy trying to survive in this crazy world, and as a single parent, I haven't had much time to worry about my sex life! I am divorced for almost 5 years and have chosen to remain single! When I was first divorced, I suppose I thought it would be ok to have meaningless, sexual relationships, but that has all changed now; (don't get me wrong, I didn't sleep around, but had a friend with benefits, after my divorce)... That is a part of my past though, because I have decided NOT to have sex until some day when I am ready for a serious relationship again (if that ever happens)! I have always been a passionate person/lover, but really, if the feelings aren't there, then you can pretty much take care of it yourself, and probably get more out of it! I'm not saying I do that, but for those who can't stand being without... Well, you know how it works! Good luck!

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Old 09-01-2009, 07:27 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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well its what most people want...especially when you get older....playing the field and dating just isnt fun anymore.

I am 38 years old and have been in and out of relationships...i just got married last monday for the first time...i am so happy...i couldve hope for anything else
Congratulations!

I don't think we are addressing a specific age bracket. I think a lot of people, at any age, will want company even if they don't want commitment or don't want to settle. Some people are forever material and some aren't but are great lovers/friends. I'm just saying there is love to be had, even if you're not accountable to them or heavily dating them.

Long distance relationships or being with a really busy person are two examples. I just met someone who lives a few hours south of here who is fine with meeting once a week when he is in town. It's all he has to offer, and that is fine with me. It's still very early in the game but we get along famously and we know the limitations/expectations going in. The last guy I met was from up north and we met up when he was in town. Also great while it lasted.
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Old 09-01-2009, 07:34 PM
 
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yes, I don't want to depend on guys to make me happy - sexually or emotionally...but sex does seem need a man to make it work lol...really don't want to get any disease and I can't do sex without love...


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Old 09-01-2009, 08:29 PM
 
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I prefer to be single and visit BOB every other day.
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Old 09-01-2009, 08:38 PM
 
Location: Atlanta, GA
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Women have always been SELF-reliant. Nuff said...
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Old 09-01-2009, 08:48 PM
 
Location: The Mango Tree
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Dang. Care to show a girl the ropes?
Well, darling, I'd absolutely love to share you my secrets but then I'd have to kill you.

I will say that it involves a clown and three barely ripe peaches though. Oh, and one handful of sticky tack, preferably the pretty blue color.

It's always harvesting time for mangoes where I live.
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Old 09-01-2009, 08:53 PM
 
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OP- Google Eroscillator, from what I've heard about it, you'll never need a man again lol
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Old 09-29-2009, 08:34 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Old 09-29-2009, 08:39 AM
 
Location: New England
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Women can go without sex. It's not that big of a deal. Those really hard up can find a young man or a cabana boy to romp with.
I don't believe that. The longest i've gone without sex was a year. It was awful.

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so I 100% support the idea that if a woman can't find a good man, she would be better off just being single. But I am just wondering how those good sinlge women deal with their sex life? I would assume they don't want to sleep around b/c we are here talking about traditionally good women.

any thoughts?
I believe I am a great woman, and I am into casual sex. Not swinger parties and junk. The only time I remain celibate is after a breakup- not healthy to rebound. Also, women CAN find a good man.
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Old 09-29-2009, 08:45 AM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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This entire thread seems to be nothing but pervy guys trying to get women to talk about intimate "moments" so they can get their pervy kicks.
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