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Old 08-31-2009, 02:01 PM
 
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Default He asked me what I would do if he proposed...what is he getting at?

I recently got back in contact with a boy I knew in school. We got together several times while he was in town visiting and REALLY hit it off.

Out of the blue he said to me "What would you do if I proposed right now?"

Is he thinking of proposing and trying to find out what I would say?

He was also asking if I believed that some people were made for each other. He said he has a hunch or a feeling about me. I have the same for him! (that we were made for each other)

Does his question indicate he is thinking of proposing? Maybe he's trying to get an idea how I would react to the question? I know it's rushed, but it just feels right.
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Old 08-31-2009, 02:03 PM
 
Location: East Valley, AZ
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I recently got back in contact with a boy I knew in school. We got together several times while he was in town visiting and REALLY hit it off.

Out of the blue he said to me "What would you do if I proposed right now?"

Is he thinking of proposing and trying to find out what I would say?

He was also asking if I believed that some people were made for each other. He said he has a hunch or a feeling about me. I have the same for him! (that we were made for each other)

Does his question indicate he is thinking of proposing? Maybe he's trying to get an idea how I would react to the question? I know it's rushed, but it just feels right.
And how long have you two been re-dating?
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Old 08-31-2009, 02:06 PM
 
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So, what would you say if he proposed to you tonight?
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Old 08-31-2009, 02:07 PM
 
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I know it sounds crazy but we got together three times while he was in town. That's all we had time for and then he had to go back. We're in our early 30s fyi.
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Old 08-31-2009, 02:08 PM
 
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I would say yes! I didn't really answer his question though. I was too nervous!
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Old 08-31-2009, 02:09 PM
 
Location: East Valley, AZ
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I know it sounds crazy but we got together three times while he was in town. That's all we had time for and then he had to go back. We're in our early 30s fyi.
It's lust.

If you really are "made for each other", taking it slow will not change that. Why rush into something that will have a 51% chance of not working out
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Old 08-31-2009, 02:09 PM
 
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If he brings it up again, and if you are that certain, then tell him! I'm living proof that quick engagements can work. Good luck!
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Old 08-31-2009, 02:11 PM
 
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It reminds me so much of a good friend of mine whose boyfriend was bothering her with this same question for a year! She would say to him, "Well, propose, and you will know."

Really, this is unfair. You either propose, or not. Testing waters is lame.

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Old 08-31-2009, 02:13 PM
 
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Originally Posted by yoyogirl View Post
I recently got back in contact with a boy I knew in school. We got together several times while he was in town visiting and REALLY hit it off.

Out of the blue he said to me "What would you do if I proposed right now?"

Is he thinking of proposing and trying to find out what I would say?

He was also asking if I believed that some people were made for each other. He said he has a hunch or a feeling about me. I have the same for him! (that we were made for each other)

Does his question indicate he is thinking of proposing? Maybe he's trying to get an idea how I would react to the question? I know it's rushed, but it just feels right.
Men aren't complicated. He's trying to find out what you would say if he proposed.

Or he's joking and trying to be funny.

Personally I think it's odd that any man would say to a girl he was actually interested in. If he really wants to propose, he's being a big wimp about it.
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Old 08-31-2009, 02:26 PM
 
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Okay this is the second thread on the same topic so why did you start another one - there is some background people should know.

If he's asking you what you would say he wants to know before so he doesn't make an ass of himself asking or he's telling you enough to get you into bed on a regular basis.
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