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Old 09-03-2009, 06:55 AM
 
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Dirty talk is like swearing. Some people are true artists. Others just make you bust out laughing at how bad they are with it.
Precisely!!! I've tried to explain for YEARS the artful use of swear words.... Simply dropping an F-bomb is crass, but a well-timed use of an F-Bomb is expressive and, in many cases, hysterical....

I feel I'm an artist in that respect. However, with dirty talk?? I think I'd sound like Oprah unloading a string of obscenities... Just awkward and out of place....

I absolutely LOOOOOOOOOOOOVVVVVE being talked TO that way however...
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Old 09-03-2009, 07:13 AM
 
Location: Tampa baby!!
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I think it has to suit the mood of the moment. There are of course times when it's completely unnecessary, it the shower for example.
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Old 09-03-2009, 07:21 AM
 
Location: Ostend,Belgium....
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don't like it, it's a huge turnoff to me, I'd ask the guy to stop..there are times when talk is not needed
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Old 09-03-2009, 07:35 AM
 
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I love love LOVE to role play in the sack. Dirty talk is the foreplay that heats up the moment and rolls us into playing games that really turns us on.

It took years before my straight laced-starched shirt and tie wearing husband was even comfortable at dirty talk, and honestly the first few times he tried it I bit the pillow to not laugh. Poor guy.

It's almost like oral sex, if you don't show em how you like it, how can they ever get good at it?

Dirty talk works best for us when we slip into roleplaying roles that we enjoy. For example, DH becomes the cop and I the dirty ***** avoiding arrest, and he happens to catch me alone "off the record" and really starts with the foul language.

O.o gotta go. heheh
Sprung a leak did you?
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Old 09-03-2009, 07:36 AM
 
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"Oh Baby...I love the way you weed wack those bushes."

"Oh Baby...You wash my truck so sexy."

"Oh Baby...MMmmm...the way you get the paper and my slippers."
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Old 09-03-2009, 07:39 AM
 
Location: Heading Northwest In Nevada
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Years ago I had two different girlfriends talk to me dirty in bed......for me at the time, it was a HUGE turn-on!!! Good part about both of these women, they ONLY talked that way in bed......nowhere else and that I really liked!!Today, being 20 years older now, at 60, and knowing my wife would NEVER talk that way nor would she want me talking that way, those days are long-gone (and it don't bother me at all)!
But, at the time...........ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh YES!!!
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Old 09-03-2009, 08:22 AM
 
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don't like it, it's a huge turnoff to me, I'd ask the guy to stop..there are times when talk is not needed
So if I told you to "shut up and bend over." it wouldn't be received well is what you're telling me??

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Old 09-03-2009, 12:46 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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I like it when she's quiet, when she's experiencing instead of expressing.
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Old 09-03-2009, 01:08 PM
 
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I like it when she's quiet, when she's experiencing instead of expressing.
Maybe she's just bored...





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Old 09-03-2009, 01:16 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Bored people don't bite you.

It's nice when they're speechless. Too bad they're not like that ALL of the time.
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