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Old 09-05-2009, 04:14 AM
 
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As long as it's clear you are 'dating' and not in a relationship with either of them, then continue dating both - nothing wrong with it. However, if one is under the impression you are in a relationship and not just dating you need to come clean and express what you want with that person - as in still wanting to 'date' them. You aren't married or engaged with either of them so until you are date 3 or 4 if you want or need to.
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Old 09-05-2009, 04:15 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Sounds like you need to talk to B and see what he says.
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Old 09-05-2009, 04:17 AM
 
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Meet their families/moms/relatives. This might help you decide...
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Old 09-05-2009, 05:57 AM
 
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Meet their families/moms/relatives. This might help you decide...
Oh goD! SO TRUE!
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Old 09-05-2009, 06:22 AM
 
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Oh goD! SO TRUE!
Oh dear god no. If I was judged by my family - lord help me.
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Old 09-05-2009, 07:58 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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You're seeing two people, both of whom you like (cut the drama of the "feelings for" routine - you like them both, nothing wrong with that).

If you're sleeping with one of them you're having a relationship with him and shouldn't be seeing someone else on the side. If you're sleeping with both of them then you're an idiot and worse.

If you're not yet having a sexual relationship with either of them then make it clear to both that you're not exclusive with anyone and carry on dating whoever you please until someone comes along for whom you'll willingly and happily give up all others.

It doesn't have to be so complicated all the time. Cheers!
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Old 09-05-2009, 08:04 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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Wonder what the women on here would be saying if a guy said he had feelings for 2 diffferent girls
Well, there you go - a subject for your next meandering thread which is long overdue. We all know how much difficulty you have getting dates but you could start a hypothetical thread on the subject. Nothing wrong with that and it'll keep those creative juices of yours flowing smoothly ...
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Old 09-05-2009, 08:17 AM
 
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Oh please...we all know men feel nothing and hump everything anyway.
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Old 09-05-2009, 08:17 AM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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You're seeing two people, both of whom you like (cut the drama of the "feelings for" routine - you like them both, nothing wrong with that).

If you're sleeping with one of them you're having a relationship with him and shouldn't be seeing someone else on the side. If you're sleeping with both of them then you're an idiot and worse.
Why not have sex with both of them? I don't see anything wrong with that. Enjoy it. The situation will work itself out over time.

I can't think of anything more awesome than sleeping and being in a relationship with two men at one time. How much fun is that?
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Old 09-05-2009, 08:26 AM
 
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Why not have sex with both of them? I don't see anything wrong with that. Enjoy it. The situation will work itself out over time.

I can't think of anything more awesome than sleeping and being in a relationship with two men at one time. How much fun is that?

Not when its pink...No fun...watch maury. LOL
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