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Old 09-09-2009, 06:29 AM
Location: In my skin
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Originally Posted by miu View Post
Or maybe this is the real person that they are. When someone is first in love, they are on their best behaviour. And the person that is in love with them, only sees their best traits and ignores their lesser ones. In the beginning of a romantic relationship, both parties tend to be wearing rose-coloured glasses. Then about 3- 5 years later, the realities start to surface. Maybe they even start taking each other's company for granted.
Absolutely. It's during the rough patches that you find out who they really are as well. I think that's the best test of character.
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Old 09-09-2009, 06:38 AM
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Not knowing the whole story but I think he is probably hurt and is trying to cover up his feelings, well that is what I would probably do.

I agree with others who say 'don't jump into another serious relationship' right away.
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