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Old 09-07-2009, 06:56 PM
 
Location: South FL
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Originally Posted by Woof Woof Woof! View Post
I don't see what the big deal is. I mean, it's not like your partner is having a romantic involvement with someone else.
You know Woof, I'm a pretty open-minded person, but it's just I would be insulted, why would he need this cheap thrill, when I can do it much better and longer. Besides, I can't see how men (especially the ones who get laid regularly) would enjoy it
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Old 09-07-2009, 07:08 PM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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You know Woof, I'm a pretty open-minded person, but it's just I would be insulted, why would he need this cheap thrill, when I can do it much better and longer. Besides, I can't see how men (especially the ones who get laid regularly) would enjoy it
Okay, but some men don't get laid regularly and they don't have good sex at home. Obviously, your man is sated, but there are others who are not.

I think this is a good option for them. It's uncomplicated, unemotional, and gets the job done. What's wrong with that?

And you know there are TONS of married men doing this stuff. Wives have no idea what their husbands get up to.
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Old 09-07-2009, 07:11 PM
 
Location: Bon Temps
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I don't see what the big deal is. I mean, it's not like your partner is having a romantic involvement with someone else.
A big deal? Romantic involvement or not, it IS a big deal, grounds for divorce big deal.
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Old 09-07-2009, 07:13 PM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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A big deal? Romantic involvement or not, it IS a big deal, grounds for divorce big deal.
HELLO???? Anybody home?

What do you ladies think your husbands get up to?

Please pull your dang head out of the sand...
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Old 09-07-2009, 07:14 PM
 
Location: lala land
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Okay, but some men don't get laid regularly and they don't have good sex at home. Obviously, your man is sated, but there are others who are not.

I think this is a good option for them. It's uncomplicated, unemotional, and gets the job done. What's wrong with that?

And you know there are TONS of married men doing this stuff. Wives have no idea what their husbands get up to.
If a man is not happy with his sex life with his wife/girlfriend, he should approach her about it, not cheat on her with a prostitute. If talking does not resolve the issue, and he is still not happy, he should break it off with her. Period. Then he will have all the free time he needs to get as many happy endings as he wants! Yaaa everyone wins! The man gets his wanker yanked, the prostitute gets paid, and the wife/girlfriend/whatever gets to be free of a relationship where the guy is cheating.
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Old 09-07-2009, 07:16 PM
 
Location: Bon Temps
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HELLO???? Anybody home?

What do you ladies think your husbands get up to?

Please pull your dang head out of the sand...
I am quite sure there my husband is NOT out doing that kind of stuff.
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Old 09-07-2009, 07:18 PM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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If a man is not happy with his sex life with his wife/girlfriend, he should approach her about it, not cheat on her with a prostitute. If talking does not resolve the issue, and he is still not happy, he should break it off with her. Period. Then he will have all the free time he needs to get as many happy endings as he wants! Yaaa everyone wins! The man gets his wanker yanked, the prostitute gets paid, and the wife/girlfriend/whatever gets to be free of a relationship where the guy is cheating.
Okay, right.

You'd think with the number of divorces, breakups, and cases of infidelities, people would start to get the idea that monogamy is not the norm and that we don't live in a perfect word.

Denial. It's not a river, ya know.
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Old 09-07-2009, 07:20 PM
 
Location: lala land
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HELLO???? Anybody home?

What do you ladies think your husbands get up to?

Please pull your dang head out of the sand...
Not all men cheat Woof, and not all women are naive Pollyannas . A woman knows when a man is cheating. She may not want to admit it, but she knows.

And lets face it. Some marriages are marriages of conveniance. So maybe the woman just doesn't care. Maybe she is getting her own "happy endings".

Either way, I would not be ok with it. But I agree, there are a lot of prostitutes out there getting paid someway, somehow, but no one (men or women) will admit to how they are getting paid!
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Old 09-07-2009, 07:28 PM
 
Location: lala land
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Okay, right.

You'd think with the number of divorces, breakups, and cases of infidelities, people would start to get the idea that monogamy is not the norm and that we don't live in a perfect word.

Denial. It's not a river, ya know.
Woof,

I wish I were as naive as you are painting me out to be. Really. Everyone has their preference, I prefer someone who is faithful. I would rather be alone than let myself be degraded by staying with a cheating husband.

Yes men cheat, women cheat. But not EVERYONE cheats. I know for a fact that neither my mom nor my dad ever cheated on eachother. Do they have the perfect relationship? Of course not. But they have their integrity, which is a lot more than most people have.
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Old 09-07-2009, 07:42 PM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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I wouldn't like it! I spent a long time learning how to give a "happy ending" massage so he wouldn't need to stray! Why wasn't my h-e massage good enough?
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