Why won't this person leave me alone?

[movin'on]

Originally Posted by Thursday007

Then send a registerd letter saying you will be contacting your attorney if you do not cease and desist all phone calls, emails, mail or any other form of communication. PERIOD.

If you want an attorney to write you a letter just ask around and it won't cost you much if anything.

Otherwise you'll just be monkey f'ing around with this woman for the rest of your life.

You know, that's a good idea. That way I get her husband involved (without my calling him and as incidental to everything), there is a threat and it's got a legal overtone and plus I think if it blows over I could sit in the same room with her. Only problem is she isn't at the address I have for her to receive it. She's at the drinking house and I don't have the address for that. I really would like to avoid the police as that WILL be a problem in terms of sitting in the same room going forward.

[Thursday007]

Originally Posted by movin'on

You know, that's a good idea. That way I get her husband involved (without my calling him and as incidental to everything), there is a threat and it's got a legal overtone and plus I think if it blows over I could sit in the same room with her. Only problem is she isn't at the address I have for her to receive it. She's at the drinking house and I don't have the address for that. I really would like to avoid the police as that WILL be a problem in terms of sitting in the same room going forward.

Damn just call and ask someone the address of where she is. Or send it registered mail to her house. Someone will make sure she gets it and ask to get a return reciept that it was signed for.

[ohisthatright]

i gotta say...i recently had a very short relationship with a guy, who slept with me and texted me after to say "sorry you got wierd" and it was heartbreaking. all i wanted was for him to talk to me and have a civil conversation. I called him 3 times in about 2 weeks and he changed his number, sent me some email about please leave me alone...it was rediculous.to get the ignore/stalker treatment is infuriating and it really hurts people. I think you have to call and talk it over and let her talk and listen. that bull**** guy "shes a stalker" thing is rediculous. ive never been called a stalker and it made me so mad i could strangle him.

[Thursday007]

Originally Posted by ohisthatright

i gotta say...i recently had a very short relationship with a guy, who slept with me and texted me after to say "sorry you got wierd" and it was heartbreaking. all i wanted was for him to talk to me and have a civil conversation. I called him 3 times in about 2 weeks and he changed his number, sent me some email about please leave me alone...it was rediculous.to get the ignore/stalker treatment is infuriating and it really hurts people. I think you have to call and talk it over and let her talk and listen. that bull**** guy "shes a stalker" thing is rediculous. ive never been called a stalker and it made me so mad i could strangle him.

Not applicable she is talking about a female friend of hers not an ex lover.