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Old 09-09-2009, 09:49 AM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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You know, I would have just said, "I'm sorry, but I don't date married men," and left it at that. He asked you out. All you had to do was say no. You don't need to lecture a man on morality.
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Old 09-09-2009, 09:53 AM
 
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How to handle this:

1. put on fresh coat of deep red lipstick
2. wipe your lip off with middle finger
3. smear lipstick middle finger on his shirt collar
4. Say" Theres my number piggie"
5. Flip pig off

Or for the more aggressive girls:

1. grab man
2. make huge suck hicky bruise above collar level
3. slap in face
4. snap fingers and walk away calling him bad tasting trash
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Old 09-09-2009, 09:53 AM
 
Location: southern california
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i know this is hard to understand as you got morals, but many many women seek out married men and date them --a guy with a ring is esp attractive--- some of them post on CDF and are unfront about this practice. we condemn men for cheating , but excuse women.
guys are responsible for 1/2 the evil in the world just 1/2.
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Old 09-09-2009, 09:54 AM
 
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Ewww...married men are boring
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Old 09-09-2009, 09:56 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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i know this is hard to understand as you got morals, but many many women seek out married men and date them --a guy with a ring is esp attractive--- some of them post on CDF and are unfront about this practice. we condemn men for cheating , but excuse women.
guys are responsible for 1/2 the evil in the world just 1/2.
Do not get me wrong, I do condemn women who cheat as well, married or other wise.Cheatting is just disgraceful... and I totally agree with the 1/2 blame here, I do... as my grandma always said: "el hombre propone y la mujer dispone"
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Old 09-09-2009, 09:58 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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You know, I would have just said, "I'm sorry, but I don't date married men," and left it at that. He asked you out. All you had to do was say no. You don't need to lecture a man on morality.
I wasn't necessarily lecturing him on morality. I was really quite offended at his assumtion that I would be down with that kind of relationship... I wanted to make it very clear that I was not interested.

I have had my share of creepy stalkers, and men that do not take NO for an answer you know...
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Old 09-09-2009, 10:00 AM
 
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How to handle this:


4. Say" Theres my number piggie"


HAHAHHAHAHA
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Old 09-09-2009, 10:01 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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Originally Posted by pitt_transplant View Post
How to handle this:

1. put on fresh coat of deep red lipstick
2. wipe your lip off with middle finger
3. smear lipstick middle finger on his shirt collar
4. Say" Theres my number piggie"
5. Flip pig off

Or for the more aggressive girls:

1. grab man
2. make huge suck hicky bruise above collar level
3. slap in face
4. snap fingers and walk away calling him bad tasting trash
You are hilarious!!!! this is very funny
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Old 09-09-2009, 10:04 AM
 
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I see where you're coming from with this.
But he IS going to be spending the rest of the year with you.
Maybe he just wants to hang out and be friends.
I think you should have just gave it a try (if you wanted to!) and IF he tried anything THEN say something about it.
I'm not bashing you, i just think its wrong jumping to conclusions.
I mean if i was married, i'd still want to be 'allowed' so to speak to hang out with my female friends.
Who knows, maybe you made the right choice!

Will.
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Old 09-09-2009, 10:08 AM
 
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I see where you're coming from with this.
But he IS going to be spending the rest of the year with you.
Maybe he just wants to hang out and be friends.
I think you should have just gave it a try (if you wanted to!) and IF he tried anything THEN say something about it.
I'm not bashing you, i just think its wrong jumping to conclusions.
I mean if i was married, i'd still want to be 'allowed' so to speak to hang out with my female friends.
Who knows, maybe you made the right choice!

Will.
What 'jumping to conclusions?' He came right out and said, "What's the big deal everybody does it."
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