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Old 09-10-2009, 07:22 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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When I was 17-18 I had 2 lovers at the same time...
Nope...
Yep...
They were all secret

It was great fun... specially in an orthodox/old fashioned/closed minded society as the one I used to leave in... you may say I was the "rebelious type" back then
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Old 09-10-2009, 07:24 AM
miu
 
Location: MA/NH
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Default What is the most lovers you've had at one time?

Just one at a time for me, even when I was in my 20's. And I like to have empty space between my boyfriends. To overlap them seems dirty and sl*tty to me. Plus, what if one of the group had an STD? I don't want to live a soap opera lifestyle.
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Old 09-10-2009, 07:55 AM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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Just one at a time for me, even when I was in my 20's. And I like to have empty space between my boyfriends. To overlap them seems dirty and sl*tty to me. Plus, what if one of the group had an STD? I don't want to live a soap opera lifestyle.
No all sex involves penetration and if it gets to that, wear a condom.

Why does doing something "different" have to evolve into a soap opera?
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Old 09-10-2009, 08:07 AM
 
Location: South FL
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No thanks. I'm not revealing my past escapades on line.
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Old 09-10-2009, 08:14 AM
 
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Three. Any more than that and it gets too complicated. Plus, you just run out of time.

And yes, they all have to know about the others.

In my personal code of ethics, sex is not slutty, lying is.
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Old 09-10-2009, 09:31 AM
 
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Had sex with 6 women one night at a Swingers Party.Tried Maintaining sex life with 3 women,didn't work out.Considerd being married to two women at the same time.

Now days I'm lucky to have sex couple times a year

hillman
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Old 09-10-2009, 09:35 AM
 
Location: NY metro area
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I had trouble being involved with just one guy. No way I could juggle 2!
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Old 09-10-2009, 09:40 AM
 
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I know of a woman that had around 12 at once...seriously. I always wondered how the hell someone could juggle that many people at once.
12?! Hopefully, she didn't get pregnant. Can you imagine having the baby and then having 12 guys show up to get tested?
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Old 09-10-2009, 09:44 AM
 
Location: Minnesota
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LOL .. well fer starters just make sure they all have the same first name .. that way you never slip when the game gets heated up ...
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Old 09-10-2009, 09:51 AM
 
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^ We have a watcher.

Anyways, when I was much younger I met 3 hot gals when I was cruising the town. They pulled over and my friend and I talked with them. Apparently one of them had a crush on me right away and made it verbal.

I tried to make that work with her but she was way out in left field somewhere. I moved on.

One night at a party the other two gals were there. We were all drinking. So I was in the kitchen and one of the gals grabbed me and said she really liked me and kissed me. I was like, "Wow. that's cool." On the way down the stairs to the basement the other gal was coming up the stairs. Pinned me against the wall and asked, "Do you like me?" I said, "Yeah." She then proceeded to kiss me. I was like, "Wow. that's cool."

When I got to the basement my friends were asking me, "Did you just kiss two girls at this party?" I was like, "Yeah." They were so going crazy. Later the other gal in the stairway was pissed to find out I kissed her friend...la dee dah.... Her friend didn't seem to care. She wanted me at all costs. She kept telling me, "She'll get over it."
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