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Old 09-12-2009, 05:27 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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And some men don't have the guts to make the first move..I would turn gray by this time. And when a woman is aggressive like me , he seems to hide away. The men "say" they like a women who takes charge. I do not think they really do.
How aggressive are you??

Do you pistol whip them??
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Old 09-12-2009, 05:28 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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If he is a *man* then he shouldn`t have a problem stepping up to the plate, to ask someone out that he is interested in. Shy? Thats ok. Still.....step up to the plate!
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Old 09-12-2009, 05:28 PM
 
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As much as men can ask this question the reality some, if not most, men will still regard a girl being desperate and therefore no matter how gorgeous or nice she is - that aspect is intimidating and unattractive to some men. Ain't these times in the world today great!
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Old 09-12-2009, 05:34 PM
 
Location: Pa
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How aggressive are you??

Do you pistol whip them??
I am not always aggressive but I do have moments where I don't take sh*t. At a meeting my own boss said that she was afraid of me. I'll admit i have a temper. But not that way...I usually find the facts and throw it in their face. I stare hard at people that lie to me. And I told a friend I could wrestle him. He said how that hes 6' and heavier. I told him im aggressive Id win. Heh heh.
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Old 09-12-2009, 05:36 PM
 
Location: Pa
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If he is a *man* then he shouldn`t have a problem stepping up to the plate, to ask someone out that he is interested in. Shy? Thats ok. Still.....step up to the plate!
I agree why don't men step up to the plate...swing that damn bat...make me say holy cow!!! damnit. lol
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Old 09-12-2009, 05:38 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I thought 40 plus yrs of the women's movement would allow you to be at least a little more active in pursuing men.

???
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Old 09-12-2009, 05:41 PM
 
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I thought 40 plus yrs of the women's movement would allow you to be at least a little more active in pursuing men.

???
Like I said in an earilier post - ain't the world today just great !!
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Old 09-12-2009, 05:42 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I thought 40 plus yrs of the women's movement would allow you to be at least a little more active in pursuing men.

???
I am active in pursuing men....but when they see my aggressive side or insecure side..........they run like wee little puppies with their tails up their heiny. (like I have a rolled up newspaper) YOu want this...lmao im j/k
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Old 09-12-2009, 05:46 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I thought 40 plus yrs of the women's movement would allow you to be at least a little more active in pursuing men.

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40? Thats diffrent. He`s 18.
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Old 09-12-2009, 05:51 PM
 
Location: Pa
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40? Thats diffrent. He`s 18.
no he's saying women's movement took long yrs to overcome....so you think the ladies would go up to a padre and say" hey I think you are hot want to go out?" And the ladies would be the bad ones, when men say lets call it a night..we then would say"why don't you come over for a drink and a movie at my place" heh heh oh I love to turn the tables.
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